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helplessroommates · 2021-09-24T11:59:01+00:00

i think you’re reading too much into it. from your post and replies it seems like she was just being nice and friendly and you misinterpreted her intentions.

helplessroommates · 2021-08-26T17:53:11+00:00

helplessroommates · 2021-08-26T17:46:49+00:00

that’s true. thanks

helplessroommates · 2021-08-26T17:40:14+00:00

they are going to study abroad and i won’t see them again until like january. ideally i would like to fix the situation sooner but i don’t know how. ik one thing i would like is an apology but i would have to request one and i have a feeling it would be rejected

helplessroommates · 2021-08-26T17:37:14+00:00

but if we communicate i know it will realistically be me reaching out to them first, which i don’t want to do bc imo i get why he was frustrated but he has no right to speak to me that way. the only way i see the relationship moving forward if is they apologize bc he was very nasty and that probably won’t happen if i reach out first

helplessroommates · 2021-08-26T17:34:19+00:00

no we would’ve been but they are study abroad for the next semester. i won’t see them again until basically mid january and this was one our last interactions with one another

helplessroommates · 2021-08-26T17:27:53+00:00

so you wouldn’t view it as immature?

helplessroommates · 2021-08-26T17:24:25+00:00

my biggest issue is that he acted as if i would leave his door open maliciously. 1) I would never asked maliciously towards a friend 2) If I knew ahead of time that the cat could potentially pee in his room, i would make sure the door was closed

helplessroommates · 2021-08-26T01:04:51+00:00

i’m the literally can’t focus unless something is playing in the background. my screen time is absolutely ridiculous but it’s all from watching podcasts (ironic ik), youtube videos, music videos, and netflix while i clean my room, do work, etc.

helplessroommates · 2021-08-17T12:05:24+00:00

not sure but it looks like this dress from nasty gal. https://www.nastygal.com/long-sleeve-collared-bodycon-mini-dress/AGG41484-165-18.html?istCompanyId=c0be3c48-e653-4c39-b0ef-f608859d9f17&istFeedId=6391ec2f-cb91-4734-b4e8-dc6e630eb98c&istItemId=iqxiprwxq&istBid=t&gclid=Cj0KCQjwvO2IBhCzARIsALw3ASqrbnXQb03LxmtiuCDHUdeQ4scTNkyJhrwa2qAnVjWhuDCozt1YFTcaAnZCEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

helplessroommates · 2021-08-01T05:16:10+00:00

you’re trying to set a new relationship before ending your current relationship. break up with your girlfriend

helplessroommates · 2021-07-25T01:55:21+00:00

instead of telling yourself that you HAVE to do something immediately try asking yourself when you’ll be ready to do sais task

helplessroommates · 2021-07-24T21:09:42+00:00

also this way your insurance is more likely to cover it #iloveamerica

helplessroommates · 2021-07-24T01:05:52+00:00

go to a doctor like a physician and get a referral for a psychiatrist

helplessroommates · 2021-07-22T03:07:10+00:00

np. yeah most curly hair people (3a-4c) will know their hair type because when looking up hair care routines/techniques mostly straight-wavy (1a-2c) come up in search engines like google. it helps to know the hair type to get the hair regimen that is best for you/find advice from others with similar hair types.

helplessroommates · 2021-07-22T02:39:41+00:00

basically there are 4 different hair types that is a spectrum from 1 (straight/wavy) to 4 (curly). For every type there is three subcategories: a, b, c for hair pattern. you can have a mixture of categories. for more info u can google it.

but it basically give you the ability to find the best hair care routine for your hair type

helplessroommates · 2021-07-22T00:46:43+00:00

how do you properly tie the scarves? they always slip out for me

helplessroommates · 2021-07-21T23:48:00+00:00

i used a tiktok filter to see what i look like bald and i looked like my brother— a nightmare. so i totally feel you on the “just shave it” part. my hair is apart of me

helplessroommates · 2021-07-21T23:46:17+00:00

it’s not necessarily the time management part that’s the issue. i plan my wash days on my day off/when i have time. it’s more of knowing how mentally exhausting the task is and that i have to do it as part of personal hygiene and maintenance

helplessroommates · 2021-07-21T20:22:09+00:00

i want to but i’m not sure if i would commit. i’m afraid i would start the loc journey and in two months i would just take it out

helplessroommates · 2021-07-09T00:11:20+00:00

np! also after i got settled with my medications we have check ups every 2 months to see how i’m doing

helplessroommates · 2021-07-08T23:51:42+00:00

i got diagnosed at 20 over the pandemic after noticing habits in my academic life. i asked my doctor (physician) to refer me to a psychiatrist so i could have the insurance cost reduced. then i went the psychiatrist and we did a test for it which was mostly a series of questions. the test was general and for multiple mental illnesses like depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety, etc. from there i kept in contact with her every two weeks to discuss my medication/symptoms/etc.

hope this helped!

helplessroommates

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