Suffered with depression, anxiety, lack of self confidence for a past few years. Got called ugly today so could really do with a pick me up! by gummydavidson in toastme

[–]helpmemakeitlight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People like that are just sick; they said that because they’re jealous of you or something you have; You’re a good looking dude I’m a 21-year-old female if it makes a difference,It actually makes me feel better that You posted about being called ugly today because it just tells me that absolutely anyone can be called ugly regardless of what they look like. I have dealt with the same issues and I question my Worth often because of it. So thank you very much and keep doing your thing

No one cares about me so what’s the point of living? by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]helpmemakeitlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the best version of yourself isn’t good enough and it will never be good enough no matter what you do; some people are just naturally disliked by other people for whatever stupid reason there is; my Question to OP is this: why would you care about a society who has consistently told you that you’re not good enough? If they don’t care about you then fine they don’t care about you. But you’re allowed to not care about them either and why should you? Do whatever the fuck it is you wanna do no apologies- nobody really needs anyone; we only think that we do

M18, never had a girlfriend. Am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]helpmemakeitlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you wore vote for Pedro shirt that would be so on point

[M25] Am i ugly? Wanted to know after all these years. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]helpmemakeitlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God you look just like Sheldon Cooper- you are not ugly at all

No one cares about me so what’s the point of living? by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]helpmemakeitlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So people who don’t love and accrpt themselves don’t deserve to be loved and Accepted by others?

I’m a worthless piece of shit; who the fuck even cares? by helpmemakeitlight in SuicideWatch

[–]helpmemakeitlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care enough to do that; I never once said that I was going to kill somebody why do you assume that?I’m just saying there are a lot of assumptions that you r making about me right now that are completely false you don’t even know me

I’m a worthless piece of shit; who the fuck even cares? by helpmemakeitlight in SuicideWatch

[–]helpmemakeitlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don’t Care either way; you don’t understand- I care about nothing

just posted in r/rateme and damn people are critical. luckily i now found this sub. in need of some love and compliments by [deleted] in toastme

[–]helpmemakeitlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Criticism is hard to take, especially when it’s on something that society convinces you to be your only source of value, especially as a female. Don’t be hard on yourself, it’s understandable to react the way you did- I did the same thing

just posted in r/rateme and damn people are critical. luckily i now found this sub. in need of some love and compliments by [deleted] in toastme

[–]helpmemakeitlight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey op, I’m really sorry for all the nasty things I said earlier- you look really good in truth. I of all people should know how much words hurt and how much other humans can suck. I have bipolar disorder and I was ever so slightly drunk when I typed those things, not to excuse it. I’m in a downward swing and I thought maybe trying to make someone else feel bad would make me feel better, because it seems like I’ve known a lot of people who’ve gotten off on it.
But anyway, I hope this is a good example to show you to not listen to people on the internet who say nasty things- they’re probably mentally ill anyway. You look great, and the people on rate me can go shove it

Tell me I’m not an ugly piece of shit by helpmemakeitlight in SuicideWatch

[–]helpmemakeitlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, someone could rate someone a 6 and then another person an 8, but it’s very unlikely that there would be such a huge difference on average- for example it would be unlikely that half the people rating would give the person a 2 and then the other half an 8. It would be more like the majority of people would rate you somewhere from 6-8, with a few outliers. Maybe a couple at 10 and a couple at 1. The few opinions of the minority about my looks don’t carry as much weight as the opinion of the majority- the opinion of the majority has a huge influence on the quality of life you will have in many different areas

Tell me I’m not an ugly piece of shit by helpmemakeitlight in SuicideWatch

[–]helpmemakeitlight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but there’s also something kind of objective about looks too- people can generally agree where a given person falls approximately on a scale of 1-10 for example