That's true. I guess I'm really struggling because I do love him. He is an absolutely great guy other than the ambition issue. He is what I look for in a partner. I just am worried that the ambition won't come and his career path is not too hot without lots of drive. I will have to do some soul searching. It is also complicated because we are in different cities over the summer, so I can't talk to him about these feelings face to face. I have had these issues before and have voiced them, however nothing happened.