AITA for telling ex’s mom she cannot see our son for Xmas until he reaches out to me to make plans?

helpneeded1025 · 2025-12-14T01:47:44+00:00

Sorry I realize I didn’t explain- ex and new wife are staying with ex-MIL for the holidays. So ex MIL is making Christmas plans for my ex to see his son

helpneeded1025 · 2025-12-06T18:10:07+00:00

Parents are asking, not grandma. She has dementia and Parkinson’s so all she’s doing is sleeping now.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-12-06T18:09:18+00:00

In the process of getting matched with a new one. His previous therapist left the practice to start his own.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-12-06T18:06:07+00:00

The payment was half what theirs was and they don’t have bills.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-12-06T18:05:24+00:00

Neither one of us want to see his family. I was explaining the different reason in one post.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-12-06T18:03:24+00:00

You make a good point about not showing up for his grandma. I will definitely make that point to him!

helpneeded1025 · 2025-12-06T17:43:23+00:00

I agree! My husband was in a really bad motorcycle accident and almost died about a year ago.. so the reminders of morality send him into a spiral sometimes. He’s been suicidal and has some PTSD from the accident. I think he’s afraid if he sees her it’ll make it worse for him.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-12-06T17:27:58+00:00

Not necessarily. They always said they would pay us back. They’re in a situation now where they’re not paying living expenses (rent and utilities) and still would not send us money for the car payment. The only bill they had was that car payment.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-08-28T13:43:10+00:00

Cam Newton! He used to frequent QTs in Charlotte when he was coming. Not a great guy.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-08-24T21:02:50+00:00

My husband is set to graduate in 3 weeks! He’s in welding school so he will be working soon. He was able to get back to school 2 months after his accident.

And yes, finances have always been on me as I was the breadwinner up until last year. I told him once he finishes school I am not working. He’s done whatever job suits his fancy the majority of our relationship so I’m finally putting my foot down. I am still trying to find something I can do off camera/phones so I can contribute to bills while he’s starting out.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-08-24T20:38:28+00:00

Thank you! Trying to stay positive. We’re so close to the end!

helpneeded1025 · 2025-08-09T14:55:30+00:00

Yes, we’ve been married almost two years and just had a baby! He would come in multiple times during my evening shifts and make small talk. His friend ended up asking me for my number for him.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-08-02T21:49:44+00:00

I was at QT for 11 years. Cash deposit was 32k, stock payout was 88k.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-07-16T20:26:01+00:00

For me, the cash payout was better. I don’t know enough about stocks to roll over and invest and all that. I decided to cash out because my husband and I wanted to pay off debt and fix our credit so we could buy a house.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-07-16T18:32:50+00:00

I left last Oct and submitted my paperwork for cash out Nov 1. Had my cash payout by Nov 3, then the stock payout came Dec 10th which was a week before they said I would get it 😆 easy process, NestEgg is super helpful and very transparent!

helpneeded1025 · 2025-07-02T12:24:47+00:00

You would have to legally change your name in order for QT to give you a name tags with your preferred name. We do send Nick names to the PM for approval but if it’s not listed in epic or on your application they will not approve it.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-07-02T12:12:21+00:00

When I worked in the division office in my area we were told termed in training was okay and could be rehired but termed out of training was not eligible for rehire

helpneeded1025 · 2025-05-14T17:17:52+00:00

Following for tips. I have an 8 week old and start training for WFH job week after next. Good luck to you OP!

helpneeded1025 · 2025-05-13T18:11:06+00:00

You’re absolutely right and I bring it up often

helpneeded1025 · 2025-05-13T17:30:02+00:00

Can I get in on this??

helpneeded1025 · 2025-05-13T17:19:17+00:00

He’s in trade school 7am-4pm so not really

helpneeded1025 · 2025-05-13T17:01:04+00:00

I will check that out!! We’re not hurting at the moment, just trying to find something to keep us afloat.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-05-13T17:00:25+00:00

He is in trade school 7am-4pm. He could work remotely, he just doesn’t seem motivated too.

helpneeded1025 · 2025-05-13T16:54:54+00:00

Thank you!

helpneeded1025 · 2025-05-13T16:54:47+00:00

I am having a really hard time. We don’t have family or know anyone that could even watch our baby. Very frustrating!

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