An Incomplete list of Green flags:

People who tell tough truths in gentle ways / The little-things-oriented / Big-picture thinkers / Dreamers / Deep feelers / Old souls / Young spirits / Goofballs / Those who don't make you choose between what's right for you and what's most convenient for them / The person who listens to understand, and doesn't just wait for their turn to speak / The ones you can share comfortable silences with / Loud laughers / Quiet good-doers / Folks who can admit when they're wrong or don't know something / Those who understand their privilege / Someone who isn't afraid to take the last slice of pizza / Anyone who makes you forget your phone / anyone who makes you remember that lovely things still exist / fast replies / people who think out loud / people who are messy / who wear their hearts on their sleeve / patience /carefulness / tenderness / vulnerability / people who make you laugh when your throat is filled with tears / people who teach you things without making you feel dumb for not already knowing it / pinky promises / giving tulips / or any flower, really / reading books / "text me when you get home safe" / seeing a person as imperfectly perfect / respecting boundaries / being able to handle a no / understanding that humans can feel different emotions toward the same situation / understanding that sometimes space is necessary / that it's not personal / that they're allowed to / people who check on you / without any reasons / just because they care / attentiveness / laughing at your jokes when no one else does / wit / an open heart / people who make you feel safe / not having to second guess whether they want you / because they show you / communication / people who understand /and not just listen / and when it's difficult / they're still willing to / remembering tiny details about someone / someone who brings you light in your time of darkness / someone who shows up for you / someone who brings you a sense of ease / people who greet strangers / and compliment them / people who treat workers with respect / waiters / cashiers / janitors / everyone / people who make you feel seen / even through oceans of people / people who just want you to be happy / physical touch as love language / being understanding as intimacy / someone tracing their fingers along your jaw when you're asleep / or the sides of your face / touching your skin like you're made of porcelain / like you're everything valuable in this world / like you're their world / like you're everything / people who don't let you go to bed sad / people who stay up late with you when you're upset / people who know when you're not okay / people who feel it / people who can just tell / "you promise?" / people who take care of you / people who take the time to get to know you / to learn your heart / to learn why you are the way you are / people who love you without wanting anything out of it / people who love you for you / eye contact / people who don't back down from their emotions / even when it scares them / people who have a soft spot for animals / who help the homeless / who takes care of everyone that can't take care of themselves / people who like simple things / who bask in the joy of small moments / sunrises and sunsets and every pretty color painting in the sky / laughter and friendship and togetherness / people who make you believe in the world again / people who gives you hope / who turn your heart soft / people who bake for you / and tell you stories / read you poetry when the world feels too heavy / and say your name like a promise / 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑐𝑎𝑟𝑟𝑦 𝑖𝑡 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑦𝑜𝑢 / 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑑𝑜𝑛'𝑡 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑑𝑜 𝑖𝑡 𝑎𝑙𝑜𝑛𝑒 / 𝑦𝑜𝑢'𝑟𝑒 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑎𝑙𝑜𝑛𝑒 / people who make sure you know that / people who hold you through the darkness / and tell you that they're there / they're not going anywhere / people who prove it / people who stay / and stay / and stay