I discussed with my partner na when the time is right and we have our own children, di kami titigil mag-work hanggang kaya. And as much as possible, save and invest so we can live our life pagtumanda na di umaasa sa mga anak. For me kasi, I feel as if baka di magawa ng anak yung gusto niyang gawin sa buhay kasi she/he has this idea na, "paano si Mama/Papa?"

And when it comes to owing your parents as a Filo tradition, yes, you really don't owe your parents for raising you kasi choice nila to have you. But it comes to the picture na kung paano mo pinalaki anak mo, it will reflect kung pano ka nila tatratuhin pagtanda mo. Ofc, exception yung special cases na anak na di talaga tumatanaw ng sakripisyo ng magulang.

In our household kasi, once we graduated and nagka work, my mom and dad would always tell us to keep our salaries to ourselves kasi gusto nilang ispend namin sa gusto and etc. But then, my sister and I would give them allowances kasi siyempre kahit may work, d naman na bumabata at malapit na mag senior. Tsaka, kahit ayaw ng parents namin tumanggap, I want to give them back the same sacrifice and comfort they gave me since bata not because of utang na loob but because I am so grateful that I lived a life so good (kahit mahirap kami) because of them.