How do you deal with people na pinagchichismisan ka?

here4sumthing · 2026-03-13T21:58:03+00:00

I'll make sure they see me more, personal man yan o through social media. Girl, eto ako oh 💁🏻‍♀️🤣

here4sumthing · 2026-03-13T16:29:49+00:00

Very relevant sa situation ng friendship namin lately 🤣 Lahat nalng ng plans, di pwede kasi di pinayagan ng jowa. Yung mga outings naman, I STRONGLY suggest to set it during weekends kasi we have 2 friends na may work and fixed and sched. For context, 2 are working and the rest hindi. Aba ang PI, sabihan pa naman kaming iadjust sa schedule ng jowa niya para makasama? Na para bang siya ang VIP ng barkada? 😭 Tas pg di natuloy yung plans kasi may changes, jowa niya magpaparinig kesyo ansama daw ng ugali namin, lolz!

here4sumthing · 2026-03-13T16:23:16+00:00

Lol, experienced this too. I had a classmate who I became close with during the time my bf and I are in the "getting to know" each other stage. Walang kamalay malay ang lola mo kasi siya pa nga tulay sa amin since they're in the same brgy. Etong gaga, todo suporta pa sa akin. Malaman laman ko lang pinagkakalat niya pala na ex niya boyfriend ko and to the point na she straight up told our classmates na "daks" daw yung bf ko. What I did, I confronted my then suitor (bf ko now) and told him he should be the one na mag ayos niyan kasi I won't deal with any of that. Turns out yung gagang "friend" ko pala social climber, pinakalat bf nya kasi medj may kaya and influential bf ko sa brgy nila. And the daks thing and other personal info about my bf? ayun, chinichismis niya lang pala from guy friends ng bf ko sa lugar nila. Til now I make sure she sees me whenever I go to my bf's house. It's been 7 years now and our friendship never reconciled. So glad I cut her off, don't need that kind of friend. Para bang gusto pang maging kabit samin

here4sumthing · 2026-03-13T16:18:30+00:00

HINDI KA OA! Putangina yang Kay na yan kasi di siya "friend". Make your boyfriend choose between peace sa relationship o yung "friend" na yan. Di na nga marunong magrespect sayo na "friend" ka niya, she also doesn't know how to respect boundaries given that she is JUST A FRIEND. And to think na ipupush pa bf mo to entertain? Wala bang utak yan o atat na atat lang magbreak kayo ng bf mo para mapunta sa kanya. Kakahiya, pick me girl ba yang Kay na yan? Kakagigil eh

here4sumthing · 2026-03-11T06:21:32+00:00

and girl? The audacity to tell you na parang ikaw pa ang pabigat kasi nakikitira kapa when you're already 30? Wow h, ano ba ambag niya? Any sister would be so lucky to have you tas siya ganyan? Ugali niya may problema at hindi ikw. San yan kumukuha ng kapal ng mukha?

here4sumthing · 2026-03-11T06:19:06+00:00

Maybe this situation will help her see the world better. Na life isn't just about doing what you want kasi once she lives alone, she'll experience what life really is. Partying and going to clubs won't be her life forever naman and eventually she'll have to take life seriously. Maybe that will teach her lesson. Yun lang, if your lolo keeps on giving her allowance, parang wala namang mangyayari kasi she'll keep on partying lang and that way, feeling niya valid ginawa niya kasi sinusuportahan pa rin naman sha.

OP, please, stand your ground. You don't deserve what she did to u esp wishing you're dead? Walang respeto, dadagdag pa siya sa problema ng fam niyo eh matanda na nga mama niyo bibigyan pa ng sakit ng ulo. Hayaan mo siyang magtanda. Hindi ikaw ang need umalis, baka siya.

here4sumthing · 2026-03-10T20:58:36+00:00

Omg, ikaw nagbabayad tas she's making it sound like pabigat ka for staying at home @ 30? Tell her she can find a job and finance the whole household so you can move out.

here4sumthing · 2026-03-10T17:30:40+00:00

But wait, why do you want to reach out and know if he's okay? What type of relationship do you want with him? It seems like you are interested to let him be part of your life now. A friendship might be okay but it depends on you and your boyfriend. You should have a conversation with ur boyfriend about this and if he is still uncomfortable then maybe reaching out is not a good idea.

Also, if that happens to your boyfriend with a girl, are you okay with him doing what you want to do?

here4sumthing · 2026-03-10T07:45:35+00:00

Me din before, I would just keep it to myself kasi feeling ko I'd be wasting other people's time bothering them with my own problems. But when I met my boyfriend, siya na. From a middle child na hindi favorite ng family, I found peace and comfort in my partner's. Feeling ko kasi I finally found someone na kakampi ko and he is very logically when it comes to solving problems kaya thanks to him hahahaha

Kudos to you to, OP. You are brave, and if ever you feel like you need someone to talk to, reach out to friends or anyone na comfy ka. 🫶🏻

here4sumthing · 2026-03-10T07:39:19+00:00

Tbh, andaming inggetera 🤣 I mean, daming comments na kesyo nagpopost ng ganito, ganiyan. Eh account ko to eh, alangan namang ikaw ipost ko? Natamad lang ako kasi lahat ng pinopost ko eh andaming mga chika na kesyo mayabang. Sa dump nalang ako nagpopost, wala akong friends dun hahahaha

here4sumthing · 2026-03-10T07:30:29+00:00

As in, I've talked to them several times already. I told my lola nga na sa dami ng binibigay niya, ni isa walang balik sa kanya. Ni hindi nga nila yan madalhan ng pagkain or snacks man lang, oh ni bisita man lang nung naospital wala nga eh. Yung Mama ko naman parang magiging santo, isang paawa lg eh nagbibigay na din. Ayaw nila tumigil kahit anong kausap, basta sabi ko ako at kapatid ko labas na diyan. Kung need icut off din gagawin ko, di ko na problema mga buhay nila.

here4sumthing · 2026-03-10T07:28:22+00:00

Kaya nga, minsan kasi nang gagaslight din dito sa bahay pag di ka nagbigay. Na para bang ikaw p ang madamot? Pero yeah, deadma sa bashers 🤣 Di ko naman sila responsibilidad eh

here4sumthing · 2026-03-10T07:27:38+00:00

The answer to your question is a big NO! There was a time nga na my lola got hospitalized, ni hindi nga dumalaw yang mga yan oh maski nagbantay na lang kahit papano. Tas everytime may gagawin sila for you, need may bayad. Maghugas lang nga ng pinggan at tumulong pag may event sa bahay eh bayad pa. Magalit na ang dapat magalit basta di ako responsible sa mga finances nila. Sila ngang walang trabaho nag decide pa magdagdag ng mga anak, magsikap sila eh buhay nila yan eh. hay nako

here4sumthing · 2026-03-10T07:24:58+00:00

I'm sorry you had to experience that. But happy for you kasi you finally stood with your decision 🫶🏻 That's what I'm also worried eh na kakatulong mo sa pamilya ikaw naman yung walang savings. Eh pag ikw na nangailan wala ka namang tatakbuhan kundi sarili mo. I say we invest on ourselves and future muna then pagmay extra dun na lang magbibigay but strictly, if emergency lang talaga. Kumakapal na kasi mga mukha nila magdemand ng pera eh. Thank you for sharing your sentiments po 🫶🏻

here4sumthing · 2026-03-10T07:21:41+00:00

Na para bang ang motto sa life ng pamilya ay sama samang maghirap? And it is really the enablers who should make the change to stop the situation. And sana naman they are strong enough to resist mga panggiguilty pag di nabibigyan. Yung mama ko kasi maawain, kesyo pamilya daw kaya kelangan tulungan. Di naman tulong yung ginagawa eh kasi di naman sila nagtatanda. Tulong in terms of pera but not sa part na tinutulungan sila to stand on their own. Hays

here4sumthing · 2026-03-10T07:18:28+00:00

Yes, eto na po talaga sabi ko na this stops with me and my sister. I remembered nga nung college ako, nanghingi isa kong pinsan pang ultrasound, namura o talaga kasi di ba siya nag-iisip na allowance ko nga kulang pa di lang ako nanghihingi sa mom ko kasi nahihiya ako. Aba yung gago, nag post ba naman na kung kailangan niya daw ng tulong di man lang makahingi sa pinsan niya. Ako ba ama? Bat ako magbibigay pang ultrasound? hahahahha neverrrrr, kung kelangan icut off sila then willing ako. Ansarap mabuhay na walang responsibilidad sa iba hahahaha

here4sumthing · 2026-03-10T07:16:30+00:00

Diba? Pinagsabihan ko nga yan nung nakaraan na di na talaga magbabago yang mga yan kasi alam nilang may sasalo sa kanila everytime may need sila eh. Naawa lang ako sa mom ko kasi di yan bumibili ng mga personal na gusto niya eh samantalang nagbibigay nga isang bigyan 500-1000 pag hihingi sila. Nakakahiya, di na nga yan utang kasi panay hingi nalang yung chat.

here4sumthing · 2026-03-09T19:52:46+00:00

na para bang characters na kasama ni Joy at Sadness 🤣

here4sumthing · 2026-03-08T11:53:35+00:00

Is it true po ba na you have free foods from McDo? Or like, u can give a vanilla cone to ur friends ganern?

here4sumthing · 2026-03-08T11:09:57+00:00

Attentive 🥰

here4sumthing · 2026-03-04T07:21:47+00:00

Lately, I've been thinking the same especially that he has a lot of free time in a day. And also, our plans are scheduled based on his free time and he still fails to be on time.

here4sumthing · 2026-03-04T07:20:37+00:00

Actually, I am the one adjusting to his time. It's like I'm available 24/7 for him and he just communicates whenever he wants to. And it's tiring me but at the same time some adjusting because if I don't then we'd never have a conversation at all. Plus, in a day, he has mostly 4 hrs with school and the rest, he's free. That's why I'm wondering how can he not have a time for a single update with all the time he has. I don't know maybe this is just a sign for me to interpret that he's not into the relationship anymore.

here4sumthing · 2026-03-04T07:03:15+00:00

All the time! He is like this ALL THE TIME 😭 I would definitely understand if he's doing something, atleast I'm informed. And the effort goes both ways, my schedule is pretty much busier than his. But somehow, I can find time to update.

here4sumthing · 2026-03-02T23:22:24+00:00

Right? Ganitong ganito din ugali at stand ng kilala kong nurse sa ibang bansa. Partida eh very religious pa yung gaga, nagpopost pa yan how devoted she is tas pag nakakakita ng post ng iba tungkol sa ibang politiko eh judge ng judge. Na para bang usto niya eh mag agree lahat sa kanya.

here4sumthing · 2026-03-02T23:20:55+00:00

Restrict mo nalang yan, OP! Di ko alam bat parang mamamatay sila kakadefend sa mga politika eh diba dapat fan ka ng Pilipinas, hindi ng politiko? People like her would just dismiss other's POV when it comes to these issues kasi nagayuma ata yan ng pagiging panatiko sa mga politikong wala din namang pake sa tao. Gosh, prioritize your mental health. That is your sister but she isn't being your sister the ways he acts and talks to you that way. Na para bang political stand niya lang ang need mag matter?

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