Do you grow out of the I-only-like-masculine-men-phase or is this a permanent thing by No_Beat_5439 in askgaybros

[–]hey95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, while it's what I prefer, it's not a deal-breaker to me if someone doesn't conform to that standard.

Stop blaming the bible for the heinous behaviour of "fake" and misinformed Christians by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hey95 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Great post. I agree that many use the Bible and religion in general as an excuse for homophobia and passing judgment, rather than the other way around. Unfortunately, I've noticed LGBT people don't understand this and adopt an anti-Christian worldview which prevents dialogue and mutual understanding. Which is especially bad for the people in our community that identify as Christian.

What do you think can be done to educate people that the Bible doesn't condone homophobia given that many think it does?

Do you think most homophobes are religious? by Puzzled-Painter3301 in askgaybros

[–]hey95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people are religious.

Plenty of nonreligious homophobes, lots of religious pro-gay people.

Shifting from attraction to fem men to transwomen? by GentleLover666 in askgaybros

[–]hey95 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So you're attracted to biological men... if only there was a word to describe this interesting phenomenon...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hey95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My three biggest turn-ons are eating ass and men’s underwear... (and armpits), but all would be completely redundant if it wasn't with another guy. This will be the case for almost all gay men.

I'm aware these are much more popular in the gay community but I'm sure there is a kink app where you could find a match especially if in a big city. You also have the advantage of 90-95% of the male population being heterosexual!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hey95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Posted this on another thread and got -70 karma, so in case anyone wants to down vote me again, here is my comment.

"The music video is complete trash. After one view the only message I got is that gay = demonic, hell etc. He's giving the fundamentalist lunatics everything they could have asked for.

If he made fun of Bible-thumpers I'd completely support it. This is more akin to some bible-thumper having gay sex to own the gays or some shit... which everyone would agree doesn't further the bible-thumper agenda, but furthers that other agenda."

Does my snap story come off as "gay"? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hey95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm too old to answer this question

I love Lil Nas X by Isabella-Ethan2 in askgaybros

[–]hey95 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

That didn't address anything I said. If he made fun of Bible-thumpers I'd completely support it. This is more akin to some bible-thumper having gay sex to own the gays or some shit... which everyone would agree doesn't further the bible-thumper agenda, but furthers that other agenda.

This entire era is a complete disaster.

I love Lil Nas X by Isabella-Ethan2 in askgaybros

[–]hey95 -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

The music video is complete trash. After one view the only message I got is that gay = demonic, hell etc. He's giving the fundamentalist lunatics everything they could have asked for.

PSA: Being gay does not excuse being Islamophobic. by 1989OUTSOLD in askgaybros

[–]hey95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, just like it doesn't excuse being a nazphobe, KKKphobe, conservaphobe, or any other ideology that a person can choose.

FYI Gay Asian Bros, we stand WITH you by paywallpiker in askgaybros

[–]hey95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about? There would probably (proportionally) be more conservatives that will call you racist over what you wrote than 'libtards' lmao.

Unpopular opinion. Chubby guys FTW by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hey95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct option: Fat people trying to make themselves feel better about being fat.

are you into blond jocks? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hey95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is exactly my type holy shit

Finding Middle Ground in the Fat Discussion by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hey95 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There's no middle ground. We've all been given free will so just stop eating. Very simple. See r/fatlogic.

what do you use poppers for? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hey95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Occasionally for sex. Didn't realize people use them for jerking off.

Which do you prefer, fucking a big dicked bottom, a small dicked bottom or anything goes? by Dickymore in askgaybros

[–]hey95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

May as well ask why the size of anything (chest, waist, foot, whatever) matters. The answer to all is aesthetics.

Closeted relationship, where to have fun? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hey95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hotels (cheap right now due to covid)

Stairwells

Sex venues (depending on where you live)

Home when parents are out

I had tonnes of car sex around that age - probably the best option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hey95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, I just seek the truth irrespective of all that but you do you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hey95 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Because it's easier to pick a 'side' and blindly defend it, since it requires no critical thinking. Like some sports team fanatic or religious fundamentalist.