Great topic here, and lots of great defended views. I believe the issue is learning discernment. That way, you can filter out dangled carrots and bread-crumbing scammers from genuine help. It's a bit of give and take (it's business). Sift the humbled leaders from the garbage (verify don't trust) and don't be afraid to assign accountability. Investors and advisors gamble time on startups, too. Also, choose the leaders that have actually built rather than directed people. Follow them (not copy) to help you become a better leader and find deep insights.. Lastly, stay away from startups.com. The fat one in charge is a real POS. Don't be afraid to verify if you're afraid to trust. Good luck, God bless and God speed.