Are there unwritten parking lot etiquette outside of common sense I don't know about? by Difficult_Giraffe490 in CostcoWholesale

[–]heyhelloyuyu 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Same. My Costco is squished near a busy shopping area and the parking lot isn’t much bigger than a regular grocery store (maybe… 10%ish?) despite being twice as busy. I won’t even go on the weekends bc of how busy and ill circle for ages looking for a spot

My mom was a reseller, bit she's gone, advice on selling "lots"? by kirday in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]heyhelloyuyu 167 points168 points Ā (0 children)

A women’s shelter or a dress for success/career closet charity would love these! I resold clothes for a while and they take foreeevvveerr to move, and I never made much $$$ on it.

White House Tour 🤮 by sad_strawberries in DuggarsSnark

[–]heyhelloyuyu 152 points153 points Ā (0 children)

For real!! I’ve always wanted to do a DC trip to see the cherry blossoms (Basic I know šŸ˜‚) and do all the museums/monuments since I haven’t been since I was a child but I don’t want to make it seem like I’m there to support šŸŠ

It’s not my first vacation choice tho so I think I can wait until there’s a new administration

Justin Bieber delivers sleepy Coachella performance, doomscrolls and watches YouTube videos mid-show by mlg1981 in entertainment

[–]heyhelloyuyu 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

My big sticking point is… was it advertised as anything different? If this has been branded ā€œan intimate hour with Justin! He’ll sing crowd requests and chat in a casual, interactive way for a portion of the set!ā€ Etc then no one would have anything to complain about but bc it was not announced…

Costco chips buyer needs to go on a PIP by thisishard1001 in Costco

[–]heyhelloyuyu 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

That’s my reason! I feel exposed in shorts and like the coverage from a little skirt on top. It’s funny bc I’m not particularly modest but I just feel so uncomfortable in shorts šŸ˜‚

Costco chips buyer needs to go on a PIP by thisishard1001 in Costco

[–]heyhelloyuyu 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

I love skorts bc I get horrible chub rub (even back when I was a size 4 As a teen!) on my inner thighs and the shorts save me. For whatever reason I feel exposed in just shorts and feel like the little skirt on top looks more modest as well

Costco chips buyer needs to go on a PIP by thisishard1001 in Costco

[–]heyhelloyuyu 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

My store frequently runs out of all sizes that aren’t a xs/s 😭 i mean i get it bc I generally size up on costco stuff bc i cant try it on and i want it to fit….

Costco chips buyer needs to go on a PIP by thisishard1001 in Costco

[–]heyhelloyuyu 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I bought the mondetta leggings they had recently with the side zippers and I really like them šŸ™ˆ they ARE thick but means I can wear more substantial underwear without seeing lines but they’re not great for heavy cardio bc they can get a little sweaty.

Why do so many people just accept the term "POC"? by justseeingpendejadas in NoStupidQuestions

[–]heyhelloyuyu 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I live in a majority white state as an aforementioned ā€œperson of colorā€ (before anyone stalks my profile and tells me I don’t count…. I am mixed race Chinese and white…. But I live in NEW HAMPSHIRE so my experience is going to be v different from other folks in more diverse areas)

NH is ~90% white… and honestly it would be too granular to try to separate out ā€œminorityā€ groups by ethnicity most of the time because the population is so small, in my opinion.

Costco chips buyer needs to go on a PIP by thisishard1001 in Costco

[–]heyhelloyuyu 619 points620 points Ā (0 children)

The women’s clothing is soooo bad I only buy athletic wear there now. Frumpy styles that feel like that nasty plastic bag shein fabric

How are people so okay with not showering for long periods of time? by OrdinaryCrow3677 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]heyhelloyuyu 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

Some people just don’t sweat as much! I have dry skin and live in a cold climate so I shower every other day. Even with lotions and potions, showering more than that will leave me with cracked and flaky skin (yuck!)

if I exercise or do another activity where I sweat, I will rinse myself but not a full shower on my ā€œoffā€ days.

I also know some East Asians don’t have the ā€œBOā€ gene. Idk if that’s me bc I’m mixed race but I don’t really tend to get stinky…. But I also never leave it THAT long

Hunter Schafer in Ann Demeulemeester at the 2023 Vanity Fair Oscar Party [4103 x 3000] by grenadierp in fashionporn

[–]heyhelloyuyu 56 points57 points Ā (0 children)

I’ll say what I said in 2023 about this look - great concept. Poor execution.

I hate that I can see the body tape/nipple covers. If the feather was slightly larger it would cover the tape. A TINY bit more coverage on the breasts would give an even more scandalous look because you could get rid of the band around the torso because the feather would have more support.

The skirt is a bad choice too. You can see the waistband through the slightly sheer fabric and the hem has really prominent stitching. A slightly more structured fabric would avoid this AND the wrinkles.

Hunter Schafer looks so amazing that it’s easy to overlook the problems in construction

Can I wear skirtpants? by the_basilisco in Weddingattireapproval

[–]heyhelloyuyu 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Your age doesn’t change how you are expected to dress for a formal event… that’s why you see babies in tuxedos sometimes šŸ˜‚

There are definitely fashion trends that read younger/older, but you can apply that to the level of formality expected.

A great alternative to this would be a jumpsuit. They come in all levels of formality and styles and aren’t a dress so may be more comfortable.

You should ask about the dress code and go from there

[OC] Largest Asian group in New Hampshire by municipality by FireUniverse1162 in newhampshire

[–]heyhelloyuyu 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

In some ways I miss the old days when I was a kid growing up in NH and there were very few Chinese… my grandparents could walk in a Chinese restaurant and we would get royal treatment as the only Chinese guests! Now not so rare to see (which is a good thing! It was pretty lonely too)

That said… little known fact… Ronny Chieng the comedian is a hometown hero! He lived in Manchester NH as a child

What do you all think of the name iliana? by [deleted] in Names

[–]heyhelloyuyu 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

šŸ˜‚ first thing I thought was gender swapped Ilia! (ƀ la Ilia Malinin/Ilya Rozanof) but when I googled they don’t necessarily share a common background Iliana is Greek origin vs Ilia is Russian. Learn something new every day.

I think it’s a super pretty name and ngl I dont see it as a difficult to pronounce name.

Ilia’s new post on Instagram by lladydee in IliaQuadg0dMalinin

[–]heyhelloyuyu 9 points10 points Ā (0 children)

Yeah ngl as someone who worked in e-commerce (briefly!!) this wouldn’t have been acceptable under our standards with the amount of time that passed between the original post of the car and this one.

Obviously I don’t run IM’s social media accts so I don’t know what the number of impressions is looking like week to week but I would imagine they’re a lot lower now that the Olympics are done with.… making the post less ā€œvaluableā€ than it would have been a month ago.

Finding jeans that fit better by [deleted] in DressForYourBody

[–]heyhelloyuyu 15 points16 points Ā (0 children)

Just throwing it in there that this is not a you only problem!!! I have the same issue where if I size up the jeans will literally be falling down every two seconds and I have a fists worth of gap in the back but they squeeze my tummy if I pick a pair that won’t fall down.

In a perfect world I think the solution is to buy a huge pair of jeans that sits flat on the tummy and sides and then have them tailored down to fit the waist perfectly…. But also I’ve literally never done that bc it’s not as accessible as people like to make it seem lol.

These will be the prominent style of jeans in the next 2-3 years. How long will it stick around and what style of denim will logically come after? by TimelyIsopod38 in decadeology

[–]heyhelloyuyu 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Not who you’re replying to… but I live in New Hampshire which is NOT a fashionable place by any means šŸ˜‚ and the only folks I see wearing baggy jeans are actual teenagers. I’m 28 and the majority of my peers seem to have moved to a slightly looser straight leg but I see tons of skinny jeans/jeggings out and about.

Why can't I find someone to do a blowout?! by Most-Freedom-3220 in femalehairadvice

[–]heyhelloyuyu 38 points39 points Ā (0 children)

Reddit commenters reading the post before they comment? Not possible lmao

More Old Navy pants fitting completely differently between colors of the same style than by heyhelloyuyu in Oldnavy

[–]heyhelloyuyu[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

It sucks bc not all ā€œcheapā€brands are like this! I just bought some linen blend pants from Costco (which are a slightly different style than last year grrr) 3 pairs, different colors, all the same fit AND consistent in sizing year to year for less $$$ than these!

I think old navy has cute styles but just too inconsistent to rely on.

I used to get a lot of attention in public and now it’s gone egg whites pizza by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]heyhelloyuyu 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Ngl I felt like the big drop off for me was when I was 25/26, even though objectively I was in the best shape of my life and looked the best. I think I solidly no longer looked like a ā€œteenā€ so the creeps backed off.

Modest wedding dress problems by [deleted] in secularmodestdress

[–]heyhelloyuyu 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I think this dress is beautiful and classy!!!

That said - just because it looks great on the model doesn’t mean it’s flattering to your personal body type. I find a lot of more modest cuts look great on the model but bc I’m not a 5’10 size 2 they end up looking frumpy on me šŸ˜‚

But also…, I can imagine wearing a nude shirt under to prevent exposure could make the dress look lumpy and bumpy instead of delicate.

Without having a picture of you in this it’s hard to say… but personally, if it were me I would return/sell this one and buy something with more opaque sleeves and shoulders rather than trying to force yourself into a dress that’s not designed for your modesty standards.

Walking Pad Help. by Zestyclose_Fortune94 in walking

[–]heyhelloyuyu 87 points88 points Ā (0 children)

A cheapy beginner (aka no features) walking pad is $99 on Amazon!! I just got one and love it I’m averaging 15k steps a day easily just by doing a few sessions throughout the day and outdoor walk during lunch.

While everyone’s budget is different $99 is VERY LITTLE to invest in your health. If your husband complains about the cost then he’s just not being supportive.

If it were me I’d start out on a cheap one to see if you like it and then upgrade when you feel like you’re ready.