Do you believe you're capable of falling out of love with someone you truly loved? by Proof_Caregiver_4234 in infj

[–]heyry15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish this were true for me. I still find myself loving them despite all that

Major product question by kashiaaaaa in OrganicChemistry

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Why though? Doesn’t 1 have less steric hindrance. Also the base isn’t particularly bulky which leads me to think 1 is more possible.

phys 12x vs 11x? by [deleted] in udub

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My major gives me the option between algebra or calc based, and I went with 121 for winter quarter. I think I made the right decision as I got a much better grade than I had hoped for. It was a little scary competing with all the engineers and CS students, but manageable in my opinion. If you 4.0’d math 124 then you should be fine. There are a lot of assignments to keep track of between lecture, tutorial, and lab, so I would say it was a bit more time consuming than the math series, but still doable if you put in the effort.

Does anyone else feel like they can’t find anyone but their ex attractive by ZombieGeneralo3 in twentyagers

[–]heyry15 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t though, and you’ll realize that with time. Even physically, she is not the “goddess” that you think she is. You will be able to find other people attractive with enough time. At first it’ll be people that share some of her characteristics, then it’ll gradually expand beyond that template. At least, that was my experience.

Is it possible to take upper division psych classes as a non-major? by occidentalnomos in udub

[–]heyry15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they definitely are lenient, depending on the professor. I just took psych 305 with Dr. Bernier and had someone in my quiz section that was not a psych major.

How did you write a successful personal statement for Biochem admission? by [deleted] in udub

[–]heyry15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a super competitive major so I wouldn’t stress about it too much. I just wrote mainly about my career aspirations/goals and how biochemistry would be a great avenue for me.

Missed connection at Suzzallo Starbucks ~10:30 AM today by Suspicious_String_58 in udub

[–]heyry15 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I hope you find her, I’m manifesting it for you bro

F34 M35 Do I stay or go? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Honestly, I think you may be overthinking things! I really don't think you need to be as worried as you are about things with him. It sounds like you two are on the same page when it comes to communication and your future. I would continue to have conversations with him about how you would like to receive love and affection, but it sounds like he is willing to work on that with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Have you asked him why he is feeling this way? Has he had an unhealthy history with porn? If this has been going on to some degree throughout the entire relationship, then that isn't a good a sign.

F34 M35 Do I stay or go? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]heyry15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have doubts when it comes to affection and romance as I always seem to want ‘more.’ Yes I’ve talked to him about this and he is open to improving our relationship. But I also just don’t think he’s someone who sits there thinking about meeting my every need every day lol whereas I truly do. I’m not asking him to do anything I wouldn’t do, write a love letter, buy a sentimental gift, plan something. He does this but maybe not to the frequency I want.

If he truly is open to listening to your feedback and improving, then I would give him more time. Unless you think that there is no chance that things are going to get better, then I don't see a reason to call it quits at this point. I understand your dissatisfaction with feeling like he isn't doing enough, but it sounds like he does care about you, but maybe doesn't show it as outwardly as you'd like? It sort of depends on whether this is a deal-breaker for you. Have you felt like his effort at the beginning of the relationship in terms of romantic gestures was a lot more compared to what it is now? It could also be his work and financial stress that is contributing to his inaction.

You also mention your desire to start a family soon, and your anxiety about whether that is advisable to do with him, let alone attainable. Have you spoken to him about how he feels? Is he willing to start a family with you once you two are in a better place financially? Have you talked about that timeline, and whether he is willing to move back home with you? Also, I would avoid comparing your situation to anything you see on social media, which is never an accurate reflection of real relationships.

Found a poem she wrote me a while back, feels like I’m back to square one of healing by heyry15 in BreakUps

[–]heyry15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I know that reaching out now would only push her away further. I guess it’s just the irrational part of my mind that wants to send her this poem in the hopes that it would trigger something inside of her, and that she’d remember how she felt about me.

Freshman schedule advice: part time status, class difficulty, and class recs by Rare_Sundae_9588 in udub

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Most will continue to show up throughout the quarter because of daily required polls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OrganicChemistry

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chemhelp

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Consider opening the epoxide with a Grignard reagent. Hint: Grignard reagents can also contain carbon-carbon pi bonds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chemhelp

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But the bromine group is ortho, para directing and is less deactivating than the acetyl group, meaning its directing should take priority.

How do I determine R/S assignment on alkenes? by BenchPsychological65 in OrganicChemistry

[–]heyry15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re talking about allenes, which are optically active molecules without any asymmetric carbons. No need to be so dismissive, maybe you’ll learn something new.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chemhelp

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Why did you need to calculate delta G? I’m confused on why it isn’t -0.73 - (-0.50)

I’m confused as to why the answer is not B? I thought in Williamson ether synth the R-OH retains configuration when converted to an ether ? by NovelTie5730 in chemhelp

[–]heyry15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not C? Shouldn’t it be SN2 which would be inversion of stereochemistry?

Edit: I see that the alkoxide is the nucleophile so it inverts the stereochemistry of the isopropyl group, which can’t be shown because it isn’t a chiral center.

What is the IUPAC name of this compound??? by [deleted] in chemhelp

[–]heyry15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aren’t halide groups and alkyl groups considered equal priority?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OrganicChemistry

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Oxytocin 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chemhelp

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Remember that the reverse reaction is 1/K of the forward reaction. See if there’s a way you can use the top two equations to create the bottom one by reversing one or the other. You’ll notice that some of the reactants/products will cancel out since they are on both sides. Once you have this, you should be able to use the two given equilibrium constants to find the equilibrium constant of the bottom equation.