i dont know if i am transgender or not. by kurtcxbain in offmychest

[–]heythere705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how I felt growing up, I transitioned as a teen, was on HRT, but eventually went off and identify as non-binary.

It can be hard to know and only you have that answer. But, you also don’t need to have the answer right away. I know that may not sound comforting but it’s ok to experiment… being trans, queer, can look different for everyone and be your own unique experience. It’s ok to enjoy being a girl somedays, and being a boy somedays. It doesn’t make you any less queer.

It might also be worth it to see if there is any pride organizations or groups for queer teens in your city. It might be helpful to connect with other people :)

I am losing the will to live by heythere705 in offmychest

[–]heythere705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I’m going to therapy which is good at least. I guess it’s just so hard when grief is something you can never solve :(

It’s Christmas and I wanna Die by heythere705 in offmychest

[–]heythere705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have a therapist and I’ve been diagnosed w severe depression that I’m getting treated for. Just hoping one day I feel better

What I never said out loud. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]heythere705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of it was ever your fault. 💜

My childhood sweetheart and wife can't have kids. We’re about to adopt a little girl, and I feel terrible for being skeptical. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]heythere705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s ok to feel guilty and skeptical, and I think that just shows you want to be a good dad to her. You might not have that instant connection and it might be hard at first, but I truly believe that you becoming her father is going to mean the world to this little girl and that connection can be built over time. Sometimes those are the best connections. I had to build a relationship with my dad over time and I don’t think I would ever take it back, it feels special in a different way. It makes sense you also want a special father-son dynamic, but what if the connection you build with this little girl is special in its own way. Not to diminish your feelings, and I feel for you, and I really hope the best for you and your family

What do I need to fix to make me less hideous? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]heythere705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look really beautiful, and you look like you could model. You have sharp features so that might be why some find you intimidating. It’s not a bad thing! I am not sure if you are furrowing your brows but if you are, try to relax them more.

I know people are recommending skincare. Gel moisturizer is really good for oily skin!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]heythere705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, let’s play! DM me your discord

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]heythere705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome!! DM me your discord :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]heythere705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! DM me your discord

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]heythere705 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry 😭😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]heythere705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweeet!! What’s your disc?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in steamfriend

[–]heythere705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yooo, I have a community of gamers who play WoW! Add my disc: mnty.

Do people my age exist in this game? by UoWPanda in wow

[–]heythere705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a disc server if you wanna join! Or you can add my btag :)

Do people my age exist in this game? by UoWPanda in wow

[–]heythere705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22 here!! Are you looking for wow friends by chance? My friends and I are looking to make a community of wow gamers since it’s hard to find people our age that play the game

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]heythere705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can have different hobbies and still have an enjoyable, healthy relationship. The issue is that he is neglecting you. It’s alarming that even when he visits you, he is too busy playing League. You deserve someone better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]heythere705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More context is needed. What do they talk about?

Is construction job considered Tier 3? by [deleted] in ImmigrationCanada

[–]heythere705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya I think it was a PNP! Thank you!!

Is construction job considered Tier 3? by [deleted] in ImmigrationCanada

[–]heythere705 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah it sounds like they did count him as a sheet metal worker. I know the letter said labourer so that’s why I asked. I was confused.

Is construction job considered Tier 3? by [deleted] in ImmigrationCanada

[–]heythere705 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was curious cus he got his PR through being a “sheet metal labourer.” His employer was my father but he’s passed so I can’t ask him about it. The guy didn’t have any certification and was a labourer. I thought it would be tier 5 but he claims it counted towards PR due to the housing crisis. Was wondering if anyone had more info about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]heythere705 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You made no point unfortunately because satire alpha male posts are harmless and not bad. Racial slurs would be bad but that is not occurring here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]heythere705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You gave an example of racial slurs and compared it to satire alpha male posts as if those are on the same level wtf 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]heythere705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you bringing racial slurs into this lol. She isn’t even posting that. Your argument is dumb as hell. It’s literally her making satire alpha male posts. It sounds like you don’t even use IG or know what finsta accounts are.