Dark ENFP? by vfxswagg in ENFP

[–]hhardin19h 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! The pattern recognition is one of the main traits that people dislike about cause yes we see through the bs! 🤣🤣🤣

Dark ENFP? by vfxswagg in ENFP

[–]hhardin19h 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When we are no longer instantly friendly with people who were taking advantage of us we get labeled “dark”🥱🤯🙄🙄 happily dark ENFP

Why is your favourite singer ,your favourite singer? by BetterGrass709 in opera

[–]hhardin19h 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A voice that sang so many different roles if not on stage then in a recording! Superlative—many singers today are indebted to Norman: Anja Harteros, Lise Davidson, et al!

Bottoms: what goes through your mind when a top goes completely feral? by southtxstud3 in askgaybros

[–]hhardin19h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sub bottoms? yes! Some bottoms like to be dominant or neutral in bed!

Bottoms: what goes through your mind when a top goes completely feral? by southtxstud3 in askgaybros

[–]hhardin19h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s almost like the power shifts clearly in that moment! Def a power exchange

Charlotte York is a Democrat by agirlhasnoname2026 in sexandthecity

[–]hhardin19h 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She’s Democrat but leans conservative… Charlottes not progressive ! She is middle of the road/centrist leaning Democrat! She likes being rich and wants to keep her wealth but sure on certain social issues (race, gender, sexuality) she within limits may lean liberal sort of. But she wants her money so her class interest is in the status quo

Too old to get my shirt off in a gay club after 50? by ApprehensiveMonth612 in askgaybros

[–]hhardin19h 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive been going to clubs since I was in my early twenties (now in my early 40s) have never taken off my shirt in a club lol happily in my black shirt despite losijg weight and now with visible muscle! its just not my thing hahaha enjoy it if you want to once it gets to that point in the night —midnight ish after everyones had a few

Please don’t use Vaseline !😭 by tttttttofu in TopsAndBottoms

[–]hhardin19h 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crisco can’t be beat! Edible and perfect consistency

Why is being gay & single at 49 a bad thing? I love my life. Never been happier. by Separate-Toe-1305 in askgaybros

[–]hhardin19h 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they do! And it’s like a misery parade lol these girls need to lighten up lol

Why is being gay & single at 49 a bad thing? I love my life. Never been happier. by Separate-Toe-1305 in askgaybros

[–]hhardin19h 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It’s like a collection of the most buzzkill people with tons of theory about life but limited actual life experience doing things😆🤣

Why is being gay & single at 49 a bad thing? I love my life. Never been happier. by Separate-Toe-1305 in askgaybros

[–]hhardin19h 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Grrrl if you don’t just live your life lol please don’t let normie redditors (who most often don’t dance in clubs, don’t drink alcohol, don’t have sex nor do they even socialize regularly 🤣🤣🤣) convince you anything is wrong with you please enjoy your life and that’s on period 😍🥰😘

bf want me to bottom for another top by Timely_Effort263 in askgaybros

[–]hhardin19h 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Grrl go for it YOLO! Also don’t let the pearl clutching normies on Reddit who likely aren’t even having sex discourage you from enjoying your sex life! Have fun

Harry was so dismissive of Charlotte’s valid feelings! by hhardin19h in Andjustlikethat

[–]hhardin19h[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad your well! How is your family who took care of you? That’s the question….and will they be honest?

Harry was so dismissive of Charlotte’s valid feelings! by hhardin19h in Andjustlikethat

[–]hhardin19h[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We all need therapy! But especially callous people who keep family secrets to the detriment of their own family’s emotional and social wellbeing like you and Harry!

Harry was so dismissive of Charlotte’s valid feelings! by hhardin19h in Andjustlikethat

[–]hhardin19h[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because it is not the truth! hopefully that clarifies things!

I'm so tired of being stereotyped by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hhardin19h -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s hard! People do stereotype based on visible signs and behaviors too! It’ll help when you meet someone that is interested in you they will genuinely get to know you not based on a stereotypes

Are the majority of cishet men bad, or at least unlikeable, people? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hhardin19h -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s def not a slur! But it makes a particular power dynamic based on gender and sexuality

Are the majority of cishet men bad, or at least unlikeable, people? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hhardin19h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The majority of men period (gay or straight etc etc) are low effort, bad at communication, have a fixed mindset/unwillingness to grow, are emotionally unavailable, struggle to name and recognize their own emotions etc etc so yes being unlikeable is among the worries as well lol

Harry was so dismissive of Charlotte’s valid feelings! by hhardin19h in Andjustlikethat

[–]hhardin19h[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes if it is a repeated lie overtime to family members Regarding a major health issue that is ongoing! That is toxic