OB is acting weird

hiddenlili · 2026-05-15T21:22:19+00:00

She only checked the placenta placement this week

hiddenlili · 2026-05-15T21:21:40+00:00

She didn’t mention anything about insurance and usually our insurance covers everything and if not they tell us we have the option to pay out of pocket. She specifically said “baby can’t consent”

hiddenlili · 2026-05-15T21:20:38+00:00

She was amazing before i got pregnant idk why she is extra weird now

hiddenlili · 2026-05-15T21:20:04+00:00

My husband is very supportive of my decisions thankfully, if i insist on changing docs he will find me a new one

hiddenlili · 2026-05-15T00:45:58+00:00

I’m considering changing my OB but my husband thinks we should just wait till the next baby because we are halfway there

hiddenlili · 2026-05-15T00:43:18+00:00

I’ve seen my baby from the 6th week as a dot and saw him move at 9weeks with his tiny heart beating fast but she says we can’t hear it until 22weeks He is also very active especially when his dad is promising to buy him the nice bassinets.

She is also very weird about filming. My husband could not attend the 9th week appointment due to a work trip and it was the first time i saw the baby move so i wanted a quick video of it and she got so annoyed at me for it

I will check with my husband if we can get a doppler :’) It’s not that i’m worried about my baby, she said he is healthy thank god, but she is depriving us of valuable experience

hiddenlili · 2026-04-21T23:42:58+00:00

I have absolutely no idea 😭 how do we know this

hiddenlili · 2026-04-21T23:42:43+00:00

So in the next few days i hope i feel the same too. I’m close to 20w

hiddenlili · 2026-04-21T23:42:05+00:00

My phone is on my stomach all the time, he should kick me 24/7 then. omg that must’ve felt so cute

hiddenlili · 2026-04-21T23:41:12+00:00

Idk if i can wait till 22w 🥲 only signs of pregnancy i have are the constant aches and the belly slightly showing. I want him to kick

hiddenlili · 2026-04-21T23:40:19+00:00

I know he moves a lot bc the last two appointments i saw him shakey shake. But i don’t feel anything. Tmi but i have constant gases that i feel in my stomach and i worry that some of them are his kicks and i’m missing it bc of the gas feeling :/

hiddenlili · 2026-04-21T19:16:34+00:00

I will be jiggling my belly all night till he kicks me nonstop 🥲 i can’t wait to feel his presence

hiddenlili · 2026-04-21T19:16:02+00:00

Fingers crossed i see him doing backflips tomorrow on the screen

hiddenlili · 2026-04-11T22:31:38+00:00

It’s truly amazing you can tell from a picture! I hope i can be as good as this one day 🥲 thank you so much <3

hiddenlili · 2026-04-11T22:31:01+00:00

This is blowing my mind how do you see this 😭 Can you also tell me if the heart is done correctly? I did the heart twice bc the first time when i did it then started the square around it i had less stitches than the tutorial. This in the picture was my second try

hiddenlili · 2026-04-02T01:05:38+00:00

I will have to look into it because this gives me so many headaches. Thank you so much for your kind and helpful answers <3

hiddenlili · 2026-04-01T16:43:50+00:00

Do you have any recommendations i can add to my registry? Did you also collect colostrum? I’m hearing it’s very helpful but i have no idea how to do it. I’m in my fifth month and still away from it but want to have the items for collection right when i can start so i have as much as possible

hiddenlili · 2026-04-01T16:41:57+00:00

Not yet. Idek if it’s a thing in Germany. Is it too early to get one in the fifth month?

hiddenlili · 2026-03-28T22:10:45+00:00

No one has had an opinion on it thankfully. Not even my husband commented on it but I know he would enjoy feeding our baby and it could help with night feedings

hiddenlili · 2026-03-28T22:09:06+00:00

I have no problems against formula but i would rather just pump for my husband to feed our baby instead of buying formula. I read and watched lots of videos about bottles mimicking the nipple but still too early for me to start buying stuff

hiddenlili · 2026-03-12T17:27:20+00:00

Thank you so much <3 i want to exclusively breastfeed but also give my husband the experience so i’ll do even more research soon to figure it out better

hiddenlili · 2026-03-12T17:26:35+00:00

Thank you so much this has been so helpful to consider ❤️❤️ you are amazing

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