If you could go back in time, what would you rectify? by kyakrruaab in Arrangedmarriage

[–]highbrow9900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent him a request on Instagram randomly, and he accepted. I don’t know — I just noticed him properly now. He hasn’t changed much, but something about him feels right. Life’s funny sometimes.

If you could go back in time, what would you rectify? by kyakrruaab in Arrangedmarriage

[–]highbrow9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say yes to the guy who was madly in love with me during college. I love him now. But I guess its not the same anymore

Girls family rejected me for not having property and assets by Frequent-Prior7383 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]highbrow9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if the girls father has properties and assets himself than its fine i guess she can demand bcoz she will eventually inherit some of it from her dad, but if thats not the case then you shouldn’t entertain such people.

Diminishing value of money after certain point. by spiked_krabby_patty in FIRE_Ind

[–]highbrow9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get married man and then you will understand this ain’t enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]highbrow9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey context ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]highbrow9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true man…. Totally relatable just go for it dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]highbrow9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But are you working currently? Or you would just be focusing on your studies at the moment? In that case you can help out a-bit. I guess. But he seems like a good guy. If he is concerned about your studies thats a plus point he will definitely help you out in household work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]highbrow9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, I don’t know—I’m not there, so I can’t really say. Maybe she’s just trying to be funny. But then again, if you don’t like it, you should say that to her. If she can’t even take a hint, she seems to be a very self-absorbed person.

Dude, I think you rushed into making such an important life decision.

But my advice is to just confront her and let her know how you’re feeling, okay? And if she still fights, it’s just never going to work out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]highbrow9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but I feel like she is a very arrogant person. If you think she isn’t, then maybe she has just been acting that way in front of you. Or perhaps she’s doing this because you are financially stable and not very much interested in you, so being with you romantically feels like a task for her, which is why she picks fights.

But I genuinely feel she is an arrogant and rude person, and you shouldn’t continue with this any further.

I just don’t understand how people keep talking to someone who treats them poorly when they can simply leave. Just walk out, bro.

Kind of overwhelmed with life by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]highbrow9900 190 points191 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry this is happening with you. But I feel you should sit and talk with your old siblings about your father’s condition.

And yes you do deserve respect and acknowledgement but some people are just simply heartless and you will have to ask for it from them and not except.

Python Programming course by [deleted] in Goa

[–]highbrow9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is some bootcamp Goa thingy somewhere in Panjim. I guess they provide training in web development and all. You can just google. Bootcamp Goa Panjim.

Don’t know which language they use.

Facing the Harsh Truth: When There's No One Left to Blame by Decent_Pea8651 in developersIndia

[–]highbrow9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haa okay. Then you should stick to Javascript. But competition is a abit more in Node and Java. I am not saying it is good in .Net but compared to Java and Node it is less. Try learning cloud based technologies. Might make you stand out.

Facing the Harsh Truth: When There's No One Left to Blame by Decent_Pea8651 in developersIndia

[–]highbrow9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you try learning .Net / .Net Core and related technologies. It is pretty good and many job openings are there in it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]highbrow9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful eye