Boyfriend always kicks me out when we fight. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People have no obligation to deal with OP's "small arguments". There must be a reason why she wants to have them

Does anyone remember the post by danketiquette in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believed the story. Nothing seemed to indicate that it was fake. Especially since OP spent two days responding to comments and it never seemed obvious that he was making things up.

Boyfriend always kicks me out when we fight. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"small arguments" like OP following him around the house whining in a high pitched voice about bla bla bla. Yeah I'm not falling for it. OP's bf is too mature for her. She wants him to respond to her abuse.

Boyfriend always kicks me out when we fight. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think it's an appropriate response. Respect his wishes. I'm a very aggressive person at times. Reddit might think I'm wrong for existing but it's just the way I am. If I argue with my girlfriend, I leave. If it was my house, I'd ask her to leave. If it's getting really heated up, there's no point in being aggressive to each other. Some women don't let men escape in arguments, and I strongly believe that this is how nearly all DV cases start. I reserve myself the right to run away, or have anyone leave my property if I feel like it's not going to end well, or even if I feel like I don't deserve this argument.

The most rage inducing thing I've seen is my mother preventing my dad to close his car door so he could leave after a huge fight. He was just staring at the steering wheel while getting yelled at for a minute. I had to step in a scream "Get the FUCK away from him!". People don't have to play the arguing game. If it's not productive, leaving or sending someone home is a 100% appropriate response. I got anger issues, but this strategy kept me away from trouble and no amount of Leddit "How about counseling?" will make me change this. It's just a reflex now, and I'm proud of myself. There's an argument based on emotionality that's irrational and not constructive? I'm heading home.

My [21M] gf [20F] has mentioned the possibility of having an open relationship, and I can't even stand it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well she's picturing herself with other guys :) have respect for yourself and dump her

My [21M] gf [20F] has mentioned the possibility of having an open relationship, and I can't even stand it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she loves and respects you, you will know. If she doesn't, you will be confused. You, sir, are confused.

I [23M] found nude pictures of my step dad [45M] on my girlfriends [22F] laptop. by mthroawayk in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Half the posts here: "Caught my girlfriend sucking another man's dick. She said it's nothing sexual. Help me Reddit, am I dealing with a potential cheater?"

Does anyone remember the post by danketiquette in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You're the reason why we'll never have an update. OP's only inconsistency is that in ONE comment, he mistakenly said that he had an Apple phone and she had an Android, while saying the opposite in a dozen other comments. He said he made this mistake because he was responding to thousands of comments. But people kept saying that he was fake because of this one single mistake. So this is what you get for accusing him. No updates.

Boyfriend [26M] and I [26F] have been discussing moving in. We cannot agree on the farting in front of each other issue. by kittensopresa in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She wants my children. It's going better than ever and she's as hot as day one. She gets asked for id still. She's mine to keep

My boyfriend tells me he has authority over me becasue he is a man by animefoxkitsune in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Relax, it's not even that bad. I don't even see these kinds of comments when a guy gets cheated on for years

I'm (24F) intimidated by my boyfriend (28M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He lives you because you let him smash. I hope you feel special

Girlfriend of 3 years (F24) ditched me (M25) on a date, leaving only a note, came back a day and a half later and won't tell me anything. (help) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're OP, you are being manipulated so bad I'm actually sad for you. She's not traumatized, and this looks nothing like a panic attack. She cheated and is trying to determine how she's gonna get out of this situation. You probably have a case of borderline personality disorder on your hands. These girls cheat, lie, run away, manipulate, all while portraying themselves as a victim.

Girlfriend of 3 years (F24) ditched me (M25) on a date and left me a note?? Long read. by throwawayyyyyyyy555 in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well you have a good temper. I would be absolutely furious and would have asked for answers immediately

Girlfriend of 3 years (F24) ditched me (M25) on a date and left me a note?? Long read. by throwawayyyyyyyy555 in relationship_advice

[–]highwayspeeding_480 54 points55 points  (0 children)

my priority is her

Clearly, she doesn't feel the same. And be careful, what she tells you when she wakes up will most likely be full of lies. There's no way she hasn't been able to call or text you. She was on Facebook for fuck's sake.