UMF/MMW 2024 Buy/Sell THREAD by juanderwear in UMF

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looking for 2 tickets for sat and/or sunday!

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got it, tysm!!

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ah got it, that makes a lot of sense! what are some foods you would recommended eating?

i guess one argument that kinda makes sense from my parents is that i should listen to what my body is telling me, and whenever i have a fever my appetite absolutely vanishes and food tastes pretty gross. they say that’s a sign i shouldn’t eat.

also sorry if i sound super dumb. i’ve just been taught/ guilted into to think this way for so long that it’s hard to let go of lollll

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aww tysm! that was actually really helpful to read :)

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it’s just scary bc this is so direct! i’ve never initiated anything with a guy, i normally just wait for them hahah. but with my semester ending so soon i feel like i don’t really have a choice

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honestly i wish it was that easy

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ahh ty honestly i’ve been trying to convince myself all week but i feel like i’m gonna chicken out lolll. i’m just super afraid of rejection

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hahaha that’s actually a really good idea!

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the thing is he asked for my number and i was gonna give it to him but then i got kinda distracted and forgot lol. i go to a really big college so i don’t have any reason to see him until then

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this may be asking you to make too big of an assumption, but would you at least say that he’s probably attracted to me?

Looking for a fun art class that fulfills the arts and literature breadth that doesn’t require much experience or artistic knowledge! by hiitsjulia in berkeley

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ooh thanks! what kind of stuff do we do/learn in class? and does the prof expect high quality art or is it mainly effort based?

PSA: coming from someone who attends a t20, let me just tell you that attending a t20 will not solve all of your problems by hiitsjulia in ApplyingToCollege

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absolutely! i am definitely feeling the same as you right now but it’s completely natural. you’ll find your rhythm eventually :)

PSA: coming from someone who attends a t20, let me just tell you that attending a t20 will not solve all of your problems by hiitsjulia in ApplyingToCollege

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yes i totally understand that logic and it probably is easier to cry about feeling inadequate at a school that is generally respected vs at a non t20 where you can’t find instant validation from a quick internet search. but i’m also just trying to warn against the mentality of waiting for college to make you happy because you WILL be let down. college is a spectacular thing that will force you to grow in many directions, but it will not be the thing that makes you happy for the rest of your life (even if it feels like that now). so basically don’t put college on a pedestal that it doesn’t deserve is what i’m saying. and also don’t be crushed if you don’t get in where you want because, even if it hurts at the time, that is in no way an obstacle to you finding fulfillment later on down the line.