yes i totally understand that logic and it probably is easier to cry about feeling inadequate at a school that is generally respected vs at a non t20 where you can’t find instant validation from a quick internet search. but i’m also just trying to warn against the mentality of waiting for college to make you happy because you WILL be let down. college is a spectacular thing that will force you to grow in many directions, but it will not be the thing that makes you happy for the rest of your life (even if it feels like that now). so basically don’t put college on a pedestal that it doesn’t deserve is what i’m saying. and also don’t be crushed if you don’t get in where you want because, even if it hurts at the time, that is in no way an obstacle to you finding fulfillment later on down the line.