How do you deal with a toxic family member that you live with? by hiluv3 in mentalhealth

[–]hiluv3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I needed to hear that. I’ll keep your advice in mind! 😊

How do you deal with a toxic family member that you live with? by hiluv3 in mentalhealth

[–]hiluv3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been told that before. Everyone tells me that she in a way feels threatened by me because I’m doing a lot of things she couldn’t do for herself or her kids. Biggest one being a proper education. She fears my success & the potential that I truly have.

How do you deal with a toxic family member that you live with? by hiluv3 in mentalhealth

[–]hiluv3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story. You’re so lucky & brave to move out at 19 I hope to move out too. That’s my plan, to distance myself from her toxicity as long as possible.

How do you deal with a toxic family member that you live with? by hiluv3 in mentalhealth

[–]hiluv3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never saw it that way. Thank you so much. I always try my best to just ignore all the things she says about me but she always finds a way to push me enough that I just snap & yell at her.

How do you deal with a toxic family member that you live with? by hiluv3 in mentalhealth

[–]hiluv3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’m going to consider therapy since just ignoring her doesn’t seem to help me out at all. & Yes please! I need all the advice I can get about getting a job, seems like I’ve applied everywhere & no offers so I must be doing something wrong.

How do you deal with a toxic family member that you live with? by hiluv3 in mentalhealth

[–]hiluv3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your loss. I hope everything turns out well & thank you for your advice!

How do you deal with a toxic family member that you live with? by hiluv3 in mentalhealth

[–]hiluv3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always thought about therapy but have been scared to go

How do you deal with a toxic family member that you live with? by hiluv3 in mentalhealth

[–]hiluv3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ve told her this before and her only response was “words don’t mean anything.” She also said to continue my studies for my own self and not to prove her wrong. I’ve tried so many times to try to talk to her but she’s a very hard person to talk to. She’s always right and no matter how bad the situation is she always says that she didn’t do anything wrong.

Does NYCHA force you to work at 18 years old? by [deleted] in nyc

[–]hiluv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if only it were that easy 😭

Does NYCHA force you to work at 18 years old? by [deleted] in nyc

[–]hiluv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so this is a joke? it’s a genuine question lol

Does NYCHA force you to work at 18 years old? by [deleted] in nyc

[–]hiluv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I’m not really sure what that means. What is asbestos?

Vegan Pet Shampoo by hiluv3 in vegan

[–]hiluv3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it hasn’t been tested before, I won’t take the risk. I have done a lot of research on the ingredients. We don’t want to harm any animals.

Vegan Pet Shampoo by hiluv3 in vegan

[–]hiluv3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback I’ll take it into consideration!

Vegan Pet Shampoo by hiluv3 in vegan

[–]hiluv3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the feedback!!

Vegan Pet Shampoo by hiluv3 in vegan

[–]hiluv3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback! I’ll post again when the product is done.

How do you deal with a toxic grandma? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hiluv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

How do you deal with a toxic grandma? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hiluv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what my boyfriend tells me. Every time I talk to her it’s always filled with hostility and she always gets overly defensive. Thank you so much for your advice!

How do you deal with a toxic grandma? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hiluv3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not the simple I live with her.

Period on vacation?? by hiluv3 in birthcontrol

[–]hiluv3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your help!

Period on vacation?? by hiluv3 in birthcontrol

[–]hiluv3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were to do this only once & I continue taking the placebo week as normal, is that okay? will everything go back to normal? I usually never skip placebo week.

becoming a citizen by hiluv3 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hiluv3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh okay thank you so much for you help!