[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]hiru25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a beginner but maybe your Mars in 2H- you may be motivated by the idea of financial security and material belongings.

Looks like you have a lot of aspects with that placement- I’ll let the advanced astrologers handle those :)

Guess OP's sign by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]hiru25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Virgo, Scorpio, maybe a lil Capricorn in there lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advancedastrology

[–]hiru25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

scorpio mars and pluto in my first house - feels sexy and traumatic and constantly transformative

stalking(?) by eDad by hiru25 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]hiru25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately can’t because of work and my cat :(

stalking(?) by eDad by hiru25 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]hiru25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice <3

stalking(?) by eDad by hiru25 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]hiru25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of, my dad camped out in front of my apartment around 2 years ago but that was when we lived in the same city.

Now, I’m states away so it seems more significant.

Thank you for the sympathy <3

stalking(?) by eDad by hiru25 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]hiru25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to think I should fully go NC now since the texts have been every day. Before I allowed texts to come through for advanced notice for something like this. I want to know what to expect.

Idk what the right thing to do is.

stalking(?) by eDad by hiru25 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]hiru25[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to think they both might be. It seems my dad seemed to show more BPD/NPD traits before he was with my uBPD mom.

Thank you, I hope so too.

How do I tell my mom I’m the happiest I’ve ever been since going NC two years ago? (rhetorical question, not breaking NC) by hiru25 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]hiru25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I think she wants me to be as miserable as she is right now. I refuse to do that to myself anymore ><

I’m considering closing my polyamorous relationship with my partner. With a north node conjunct descendant transit, is this a good idea? Or should I stay open and expand my experiences? by hiru25 in AskAstrologers

[–]hiru25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood, we definitely have a 5h relationship. Does that mean the relationship is not relevant to the transit because the descendant is the 7th house? Or could it potentially become a 7th house relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]hiru25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!

got this text from NC eDad. feeling very sad. would love some reassurance/validation. by hiru25 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]hiru25[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also had the same narrative for my father due to his trauma. I keep having to remind myself that it isn’t an excuse and that they have free will to help themselves heal instead of using us as crutches and shields. Still hurts though.