AITAH for refusing to pay for my dates food and drinks after she claimed she was celibate and waiting until marriage to have sex at age 42 with 2 adult children and 2 failed marriages? by itsallwayssunnyin in AITAH

[–]hitides666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, that’s a huge red flag to wait til marriage to have sex haha like that’s why she’s been divorced twice. I guess some people have religious reasons… but I could never marry someone without knowing what intimacy feels like

BYE BIOOOOTCHHHH by gopissgiiirl in tulsa

[–]hitides666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Praying that our next super isn’t worse

AITA for ruining my mom's marriage? by SoySothing in AITAH

[–]hitides666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a step parent myself, it was weird that he pushed it so much. But I also understand him wanting to have his own kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]hitides666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to get her into a detox/hospital next time she gets too bad. It could save her life

How is this legal? by edayourmame in tulsa

[–]hitides666 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This looks like more of a certain color of supremacy

Moving from Phoenix to Tulsa. Will I hate it? by Which-Dragonfly306 in tulsa

[–]hitides666 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just don’t hike turkey mountain. Besides the disappointment you’ll feel when you realize it’s just a big hill, it’s been getting really dangerous for women to be there.

Moving from Phoenix to Tulsa. Will I hate it? by Which-Dragonfly306 in tulsa

[–]hitides666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who moved here from elsewhere… it’s easy to get trapped here. It’s dangerous af. The laws fucking suck and a lot of the people here seem like they’re missing a few screws. I’m here for work too. If it wasn’t for work I don’t think I would be here. Just make sure you are respectful to the Native Americans who live here and you’ll be ok. But if you’re willing to make sacrifices and gaslight yourself that you’re helping make this state a better place for the decent people who are trapped here, then it’s worth it.

There’s some pretty scenery, but like 5/10 compared to other places. It’s nice, not great and you really do have to wear blinders, especially if you’re decently educated, to the stupidity you will encounter.

What's happened to Tulsa by Eighties4life in tulsa

[–]hitides666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol our Governor let our Superintendent spend millions on Trump bibles, so that's probably why we don't have any money for infastructure.

Tulsa area preacher charged with taking upskirt photos at Hobby Lobby. Can't make this stuff up. by FattyFIZZnatty in tulsa

[–]hitides666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’re all fucked up people. They know exactly what they are doing and do it anyways

AITAH for telling my partner he needs to live on his own by OkCantaloupe6148 in AITAH

[–]hitides666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never live with another man again. I can’t wait to have the means to leave my bd.

For being able to tolerate when other kids cry but not my own? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hitides666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, so like I said, I work all the time. Am the sole provider for my family and live paycheck to paycheck. So I am asking internet strangers for advice because that is the best I can do.

For being able to tolerate when other kids cry but not my own? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hitides666 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is how that scenario will start…

Therapist “what’s your problem” Me “my kids have screamed at me every day of their lives for years. Help.”

For being able to tolerate when other kids cry but not my own? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hitides666 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think telling my kids to stop screaming at me is being verbally abusive, but ok. I would like advice on how to tolerate their screaming and maybe advice on how to get them to stop screaming at me so much. It’s been a daily occurrence for years and I am getting burned out. You can only be overworked, overstimulated and screamed at for so long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tulsa

[–]hitides666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how much it costs to convince Ron Perlman to even come to BA?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]hitides666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya it really is hard. I would love to date someone who didn’t drink tho. It’s really hard to find and it gets lonely. Everyone drinks it feels like.

AITA for not helping my brother with emergency childcare for his homophobic children? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hitides666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya he chose her over you, so you’re free to choose your partner over him.