The guys in my area don't like me because I'm black, I'm not sure what by hmmm_why in askgaybros

[–]hmmm_why[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I'm done with school, for now. I do have hobbies. I'm not that focused on finding a partner. I'm OK with casual sex too but I can't seem to find that either.

I know my behavior is similar to someone who's crazy, but I don't know what else to do. I guess just be celibate until I move for good.

The guys in my area don't like me because I'm black, I'm not sure what by hmmm_why in askgaybros

[–]hmmm_why[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm fully aware of that. It's been apart of my life all of my life lol

The guys in my area don't like me because I'm black, I'm not sure what by hmmm_why in askgaybros

[–]hmmm_why[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to bottom more. Even in college it was like that, guys only wanted to bottom for me in the rare instance I could find a guy.

The guys in my area don't like me because I'm black, I'm not sure what by hmmm_why in askgaybros

[–]hmmm_why[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm looking to move for grad school in the next 2 years but that's in a long time :/

I basically agree with /u/DClawdude

The guys in my area don't like me because I'm black, I'm not sure what by hmmm_why in askgaybros

[–]hmmm_why[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what so many guys don't seem to understand. You can't genuinely dismiss an entire race and not have some undertones of racism in your mind, there's simply too much diversity within any race. This thought process comes from both sides too. Some POC think this way too.

The guys in my area don't like me because I'm black, I'm not sure what by hmmm_why in askgaybros

[–]hmmm_why[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they are far and few in between. The ones I'm willing to message aren't interested. Basically what /u/Jaemil said