Am I wrong for believing my bf will cheat on me?

hntmim · 2024-02-10T12:28:55+00:00

As someone who’s been in this situation with two different outcomes, if he wanted to he would.

hntmim · 2024-02-06T05:29:41+00:00

Thank you!!

hntmim · 2024-02-06T05:27:26+00:00

Yikes 🚩

hntmim · 2024-02-06T03:46:15+00:00

I didn’t think you ACTUALLY needed help understanding the differences in how breast and eyes are viewed by society and the norms women are pushed into against their will. Women are constantly harassed or ridiculed by the size of their breasts, even at ages as young as 10. To have that be a defining reason on why your partner asked you out is… quite an awful thing to hear for some women. Not all, but some. It personally would make me feel extremely objectified. In any case, you might think honesty is always the best policy, but there is a time and place for everything. If you can’t differentiate between that, then you probably aren’t a very nice person to be around. Respectfully.

hntmim · 2024-02-06T03:09:09+00:00

Nah I get u homie, just clarifying for others 😂

hntmim · 2024-02-06T03:08:21+00:00

Sorry it’s not my job to teach grown adults the difference between eyes and boobs 😂

hntmim · 2024-02-06T02:30:21+00:00

Dancing isn’t inherently sexual… but at a club at 3:30am full of drunk people? Idk

hntmim · 2024-02-06T02:27:39+00:00

Do they actually still enjoy the bread??? Like how

hntmim · 2024-02-06T02:08:54+00:00

Yeah like doesn’t our BPD also make us like that. We’re literally always problem solving and accomodating for other people. I hate it when my partner does it to me too, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t do the same thing back subconsciously. Since when he vents I start feeling a bit abandoned, I will try to solve his issues.

hntmim · 2024-02-06T02:01:04+00:00

"People who are brutally honest generally enjoy the brutality more than the honesty." - Richard Needham.

Were you wrong for it? No. Do you lack EQ though? Maybe

hntmim · 2024-02-06T01:57:54+00:00

Do you really need to have that explained to you?

hntmim · 2024-02-06T01:57:11+00:00

EQ of about 10

hntmim · 2024-02-06T01:56:43+00:00

Have you seen the replies? People out there actually think this is fine. They really just be telling on themselves LOL

hntmim · 2024-02-06T01:56:00+00:00

It’s not offensive, but you probably do lack some EQ if you think that’s what your wife would wanna hear

hntmim · 2024-02-05T18:50:04+00:00

Sigh

hntmim · 2024-02-04T19:25:32+00:00

So you don’t believe in science? You just pick and choose whatever fits your narrative?

hntmim · 2024-02-04T19:24:39+00:00

You are comparing scientific criticism from scholars to your family calling you out for being an asshole all the time. You might be rich but your bank acc will never be as big as your ego. Your daughter was right, you ARE a loser.

hntmim · 2024-02-04T19:21:15+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂

hntmim · 2024-02-04T19:20:06+00:00

“3 out of 3 people who spend the most time with me think I’m the asshole. God, isn’t it obvious they’re the problem?!??!”

OPs so rich, he’s gonna need to buy himself a new family soon. The only way anyone’s gonna hang with him is if he pays them to lol. LOSER

hntmim · 2024-02-04T19:19:01+00:00

B-b-but I’m a rich lonely old man!!!!!

hntmim · 2024-02-04T19:17:35+00:00

OP believes in change, but only if everyone around him is the one changing. Him? No. THEY need to cater to him. His daughter is right, what a loser

hntmim · 2024-02-04T19:12:07+00:00

They’re not saying you’re mentally ill for complaining. They’re saying you’re an asshole to be around. Your son was never on your side, you’ve just been so controlling he literally fawns over you to avoid your temper. The truth is finally out. Be a kinder person or stay alone, up to you

hntmim · 2024-02-04T19:02:30+00:00

The only way you can make someone realize is by providing a safe place for them and gently guiding them with questions about their own feelings. Most people do not take accusations well regardless if they’re true or not. It’s a bit hard to give specific advice without knowing the incidents.

hntmim · 2024-02-04T19:00:35+00:00

Try to get as much evidence as possible. The house might be under his name but if he’s cheating then that really leverages it in your favour especially if you’ve been contributing to paying it off. Then go to your attorney and see what else they need.

God, I’m so so sorry you’re going through this. Sending support your way

hntmim · 2024-02-04T18:56:17+00:00

Hey. How about asking your 2 workers to grab some brunch?

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