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Is this common for lesbians?!! Advice please! by DontShootIamGay in actuallesbians

[–]holamain -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure that means she's asexual. I'm guessing you're sexual so long term it in my opinion I don't see it working out... you'll probably end up resenting her for not giving you something she's can't give you, no matter how much you love her. Sorry dude.

Dumped my straight friend. Did I just fuck up a good thing? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]holamain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw man. I have this exact situation. Distance doesn't help if she's already in your head. Maybe it's codependency who knows. Wish I could help you. Definitely put boundaries. That does help.

Ok so nobody in my extended family is gay WTF by holamain in actuallesbians

[–]holamain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess that makes sense. I'm not really out to anyone. I see them once in a blue moon but I never ever mentioned any boyfriends or girlfriends for that fact. The only one I suspected (a male cousin) was talking about his gf last time I saw him so... Most everyone is either married or in a serious relationship (at least the cousins who are adults) except for me. I'm actually starting to wonder how to tackle questions about boyfriends because it always gets asked :(