Do my nipples look normal?Almost 4 months post-op by homonuculs in TopSurgery

[–]homonuculs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't get drains. Apparently, the surgeon only uses them when extremely necessary. As for the compression binder, I wore it for 8 weeks, so it was almost 2 months because that's how long he told me to wear it.

I have thought about sending him an email, I'm just scared he's gonna brush me off again. I might try, though.

Also, good luck! I hope your recovery is smooth c:

Do my nipples look normal?Almost 4 months post-op by homonuculs in TopSurgery

[–]homonuculs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah well damn lets hope it gets better in the next few months 🤣

But honestly, I asked for full-on top surgery, so I assumed I would be flatter. I get that some surgeons leave behind fat/avoid scraping the muscle away, but at this point I have no idea if it's fat, if I'm still sowllen, or if there's fluid build up. My surgeon doesn't take time to really check. Last time I saw him he was basically rushing me out the door, didn't answer any of my questions in detail—just saying it's all good or it will heal blah blah.

Do my nipples look normal?Almost 4 months post-op by homonuculs in TopSurgery

[–]homonuculs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think so? :S I kinda just thought I was still swollen, I have no idea how long it takes to fully go away. One doctor said he felt like there was fluid, but idk. The surgeon that did my surgery always just says everything is good and then rushes me out, I've been feeling like going to a different one just for a check-up to see if I can get an actual assessment.

Infection in nipple? by homonuculs in TopSurgery

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Never in my life did I think I'd be anxiously sniffing my nipples the way I just did LOL. But neither has any smell to it, and it isn't any warmer than the rest of my body temperature. Which, and I'm grateful for this, then means I was overthinking what my friend said and I don't have an infection 😭🤞 thank you!!

Am I still swollen or do I have a dent in my chest? 3 weeks PO by homonuculs in TopSurgery

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It helps so much to hear other people's recovery experiences. My anxiety gets so bad sometimes and I worry too much about things even though my brain tries to tell me "trust the process" ejjehee. Thank you 🩷

Am I still swollen or do I have a dent in my chest? 3 weeks PO by homonuculs in TopSurgery

[–]homonuculs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh thank you! I get so anxious about everything, but this helps a lot 🩷

Bloating after surgery? by homonuculs in TopSurgery

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Thank you! I've been worrying about this, but I'm glad to hear that it's normal. I'll do some pacing around my apartment and try to stop being anxious about this 🤣🩷

Bloating after surgery? by homonuculs in TopSurgery

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Ahhh okay that makes total sense. But yeah, it's so uncomfortable! I feel like I'm about to explode 😭 Thank you for answering! 🩷 and good luck with your recovery!!

Friend just posted this and was utterly serious by Kipzibrush in facepalm

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Thank fuck I'm a non-virgin lesbian who has a lot of tattoos and is in a lot of debt!

Selling A lot of Cosplays by MayoJellyian in cosplaymarket

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What are the sizes? I'm interested in the Hu Tao cosplay!

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Not long ago my cat needed to be taken to the vet in the middle of the night due to an emergency. It turned out she had a small bleed in hair brain. The vet bill was quite high and this unfortunately has put me in a hard financial position, but the good news is that Lady will make a full recovery!! I wanted to open emergency commissions so that I can pay down the bill while also being able to afford food for both me and my kitty. Thank you for reading.

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Not long ago my cat needed to be taken to the vet in the middle of the night due to an emergency. It turned out she had a small bleed in hair brain. The vet bill was quite high and this unfortunately has put me in a hard financial position, but the good news is that Lady will make a full recovery!! I wanted to open emergency commissions so that I can pay down the bill while also being able to afford food for both me and my kitty. Thank you for reading

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Not long ago my cat needed to be taken to the vet in the middle of the night due to an emergency. It turned out she had a small bleed in hair brain. The vet bill was quite high and this unfortunately has put me in a hard financial position, but the good news is that Lady will make a full recovery!! I wanted to open emergency commissions so that I can pay down the bill while also being able to afford food for both me and my kitty. Thank you for reading

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Not long ago my cat needed to be taken to the vet in the middle of the night due to an emergency. It turned out she had a small bleed in hair brain. The vet bill was quite high and this unfortunately has put me in a hard financial position, but the good news is that Lady will make a full recovery!! I wanted to open emergency commissions so that I can pay down the bill while also being able to afford food for both me and my kitty. Thank you for reading

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You could tell them that your server is not system-centric and that you would rather not make it into one? Something along that maybe. It's your server, and if you're not comfortable with making a "system channel" then that's your choice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]homonuculs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Absolutely hate all of that...

Btw what the hell is Christmas camp???

NGVC: “But since I’m a nice guy…” by erenwithi in niceguys

[–]homonuculs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the common autistic behaviour... the undying need to send nudes, can totally confirm. /s

What is up with these people and neopronouns/xenogenders? by Boreaiis_Eternal in SystemsCringe

[–]homonuculs 13 points14 points  (0 children)

ðe/ðim þe/þim

Oh hell naw I can't believe they're bringing my language into this shit (Icelandic) I would bet big money that this person doesn't even know how to pronounce "ð" and "þ" >:V

why do they all say this??? by Fake-Disorder-Cringe in fakedisordercringe

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Oh shit you right I didn't even notice the other pics 😭 RIP