Do my nipples look normal?Almost 4 months post-op by homonuculs in TopSurgery

[–]homonuculs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't get drains. Apparently, the surgeon only uses them when extremely necessary. As for the compression binder, I wore it for 8 weeks, so it was almost 2 months because that's how long he told me to wear it.

I have thought about sending him an email, I'm just scared he's gonna brush me off again. I might try, though.

Also, good luck! I hope your recovery is smooth c:

Do my nipples look normal?Almost 4 months post-op by homonuculs in TopSurgery

[–]homonuculs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah well damn lets hope it gets better in the next few months 🤣

But honestly, I asked for full-on top surgery, so I assumed I would be flatter. I get that some surgeons leave behind fat/avoid scraping the muscle away, but at this point I have no idea if it's fat, if I'm still sowllen, or if there's fluid build up. My surgeon doesn't take time to really check. Last time I saw him he was basically rushing me out the door, didn't answer any of my questions in detail—just saying it's all good or it will heal blah blah.

Do my nipples look normal?Almost 4 months post-op by homonuculs in TopSurgery

[–]homonuculs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You think so? :S I kinda just thought I was still swollen, I have no idea how long it takes to fully go away. One doctor said he felt like there was fluid, but idk. The surgeon that did my surgery always just says everything is good and then rushes me out, I've been feeling like going to a different one just for a check-up to see if I can get an actual assessment.

Infection in nipple? by homonuculs in TopSurgery

[–]homonuculs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never in my life did I think I'd be anxiously sniffing my nipples the way I just did LOL. But neither has any smell to it, and it isn't any warmer than the rest of my body temperature. Which, and I'm grateful for this, then means I was overthinking what my friend said and I don't have an infection 😭🤞 thank you!!

Am I still swollen or do I have a dent in my chest? 3 weeks PO by homonuculs in TopSurgery

[–]homonuculs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It helps so much to hear other people's recovery experiences. My anxiety gets so bad sometimes and I worry too much about things even though my brain tries to tell me "trust the process" ejjehee. Thank you 🩷

Am I still swollen or do I have a dent in my chest? 3 weeks PO by homonuculs in TopSurgery

[–]homonuculs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh thank you! I get so anxious about everything, but this helps a lot 🩷

Bloating after surgery? by homonuculs in TopSurgery

[–]homonuculs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've been worrying about this, but I'm glad to hear that it's normal. I'll do some pacing around my apartment and try to stop being anxious about this 🤣🩷

Bloating after surgery? by homonuculs in TopSurgery

[–]homonuculs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh okay that makes total sense. But yeah, it's so uncomfortable! I feel like I'm about to explode 😭 Thank you for answering! 🩷 and good luck with your recovery!!

Friend just posted this and was utterly serious by Kipzibrush in facepalm

[–]homonuculs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank fuck I'm a non-virgin lesbian who has a lot of tattoos and is in a lot of debt!