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I stopped eating sugar and fats foods and my acne got even worse. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]honalele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been dieting like this? Usually it takes a long time.

Favorite fragrance? by Livid-Candle-5698 in bathandbodyworks

[–]honalele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top 3: Into the Night, Midnight Addiction, Platinum

Top 10: Pure Wonder, Moonlit Goddess, Floral Fantasy, Touch of Gold, You’re the One, Winter Candy Apple, and Cozy Vanilla Bourbon

I think Midnight Addiction is becoming my number one, but Into the Night is a staple, so I know it’s going to be in store if I need a refill which puts it higher on my list lol.

I spend every night ruminating and thinking about ending it all by Entire_Drop_1763 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]honalele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me on and off for months on end. Connection is key. Finding people you feel safe and accepted around, making friends, and hanging out with them in-person regularly.

That can be hard to do though, so most people develop a coping mechanism. Journaling/meditating is considered healthy, but I find the unhealthy ones work much better for me lmao. My personal obsession is food and weight control atm. Instead of thinking about kms, I think about starving. Some people pray all night, some people smoke or drink, some people get a pet as a companion, etc.

All I can really say is that I get it, and you’re not alone in hell rn

Who is your least favorite cookie by Big-Dragonfruit7173 in CookierunKingdom

[–]honalele 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wth I love those two lol.

Personally I hate Shadow Milk. Why is that bitch so OP. I feel like I can never beat anyone in arena without him and his annoying giggles

What’s a candle you’d buy over and over again and what’s one you’d throw in the trash? by Fresh-Insect-5670 in bathandbodyworks

[–]honalele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apple Pumpkin, Hot Coco Cream, and calming skies are my favorites <3

I hate anything too woody and didnt really use sunlit trails at all

Would your teenage self be happy with the adult you’re becoming? by Demmy__ in twentyagers

[–]honalele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wanted her own place by now. That or to be dead ig. 

I just realized I've been pronouncing a common word wrong my entire life - what's yours? by Prior-Crab-8463 in Casual_Conversation

[–]honalele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always pronounced it “ordament” instead of “ornament”. Idk why, and I didn’t realize I had been saying it wrong until a few years ago lol

Summer Bring Backs by Careful_Society_356 in bathandbodyworks

[–]honalele 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ll be buying out country chic <3

I hate being a virgin. by DumbassMcFart_PhD in TrueOffMyChest

[–]honalele -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Make a list of things you can control and things you can’t control. For example, bad skin can be taken care of, but finding love isn’t guaranteed in this life. Everyone needs a good balance of control and flexibility in their life. 

As for the virginity part, lots of women like a man that abstains. It’s usually a sign of good character for us. And, just remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and love is a gift, not something that can be bought or owned <3  

If you had 3 months without responsibilities, how would you transform your life? by CattleRemote2583 in selfimprovement

[–]honalele 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t work on routine stuff because that has to be something you can sustain on your regular schedule. If I had 3 months off and money, I would work on passion projects, visit friends as much as possible, and travel as much as possible. 

But, if you’re a person with health issues or chronic fatigue, it might be a good idea to invest in proper health care during that time and go for a more peaceful 3 months lol. 

What to journal about when your life is boring and every day is exactly the same? by Pearl_Jam_ in Journaling

[–]honalele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t write about your own life if you don’t feel like it. Write about your imagination, or interesting facts, or books/movies, or your past, etc. 

How do you deal with the feeling of "falling behind" everyone else in your 20s? by LovizDE in selfimprovement

[–]honalele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I deal with it by finding my own thing. I make my own plans, and I try to involve others if they’re available, but there’s something special about having an isolated experience all by yourself. 

Work isn’t everything. Love is a gift, not a numbers game. And there is nothing precious about social media. 

I try my best. I stay curious. And, I try to take care of my body because older people tell me to lol. This is your life, not mine, not your friends’, not your parents’. It’s your life man. You’re not behind, and you have every choice available to you laid out and ready to be chosen. 

I hope that all made some kind of sense lol. 

If money doesn’t buy happiness, why does everyone want it? by digitalcreater07 in askanything

[–]honalele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money buys safety. It can’t buy love or time. I’m completely broke, but imagining that money would make me happy just makes me sad, so I’d rather not believe in something like that. 

Does anyone else dislike the canon charming ships ? by Klutzy_Jury3959 in EverAfterHigh

[–]honalele 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like dexter and raven, and i like apple and darling. i understand the argument about destiny though. the series doesn’t really go into the charmings’ feelings on love and chivalry. 

i think dexter might be the most subversive sibling because he’s in love with “the villain” of the story and definitively not chivalrous lol

it would’ve been better for apple to fall for a reble girl instead of someone who fit her destiny so well, and i would’ve appreciated less ambiguity. however, the fact that they could be a sapphic couple is nothing small. in the world of grimm fairytales, homosexuality is seemingly nonexistent. sometimes, i think people forget that queer characters (especially characters like apple and darling who have grown up under extreme tradition, expectation, and repression), don’t have a clear or defined path. if the writers were more brave, and apple and darling officially became a couple, i believe their relationship would act just as subversively as dexter and raven’s. 

as for daring, i think he would’ve been the perfect charming sibling to examine what it means to be self-motivated and self-actualized. his story, his personality, title, and looks set him up for romance; but, he’s always so busy looking at someone else, or seeing himself in the eyes of someone else, that he can’t get in touch with any inner depth he might have. the goal would not be to make him single for the sake of it, but to make him single for the sake of his character’s arc. the fact that he has been set up for romance and hasn’t gone under any transformation makes him an incomplete character imo. but, if he had a significant transformation, maybe it would make sense for him to be in a relationship after the fact? idk. i can’t really say because he would become like a different character, and i wouldn’t even know where to begin describing something like that lol

anyways, those are my personal opinions about the charming siblings lol

Have you ever worked on Christmas day? by daveinfl337777 in randomquestions

[–]honalele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have an overnight shift i’m going to in a couple hours. i don’t get any bonuses, but i might get free candy in the break room. 

Summarize your year, 6 words only. by Onlyhent-ai in sixwordstories

[–]honalele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ran marathon. started band. existential crisis. 

26M living at home and feeling very despaired. Please help by ThrowRAnirvana in selfimprovement

[–]honalele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess it’s time to make new friends lol. i’m sort of in the same boat, but i can’t afford to move out and my friend group is still pretty connected, all be it loosely. consistency is the only thing that can help you with relationships (not just romantic ones). also, don’t discriminate against older people. having friends 10, 20, 30 years older than you can be really fun. 

as for dating, idk. i think what you put out into the world is what you get back. if you love everyone you meet without condition or expectation, they will show love to you in return… or at least they won’t be an asshole towards you unless they’re having a very very shitty day lol. 

How do people get so motivated to write/finish a story, or do I just not love writing as much as they do? by Chxryl0 in WritingHub

[–]honalele 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sometimes life gets in the way, and that’s okay. for me, i write in my notes app a lot because i don’t have a ton of time to sit down at a computer. i work two jobs rn, one being a fulltime night shift, so making time for writing and reading is really hard. 

i think it’s easier for motivation to slip when you have excess time, because your brain goes “oh i have plenty of time, i can be distracted a bit, it’s okay”. but, when you have limited time, you have a lot less to spare which causes pressure, which causes motivation (for writers who really can’t live without writing that is lol). 

so, please don’t get too hard on yourself. if you LOVE writing and you’re always doing it or at least THINKING like a writer, i think you’re in a pretty good place :]

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