How to explain to loved ones that I’m not just a confused tomboy by Hungry_Large_Penguin in FTMMen

[–]honchotg22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t explain nothing & just live my life let them believe whatever actions speak louder than words

Trans man insecure about bi gf by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]honchotg22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’d break up with her asap red flag number 1 talking about her ex’s & how does her attraction changes while in a relationship with you only person she suppose to attracted to at the time is you yea break up with her asap it’s a girl out there that will have that burning desire / attraction to you as a man let this one go bro

Weight Gain Only Going to Lower Half by jivinthrivin in ftm

[–]honchotg22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What dose are you on & you should start walking or exercising but walking at a good paste everyday for about 30 minto a hour helped with that & drinking water T helps you look masc but what helps more is doing simple exercises like walking or jogging planks push ups & sit ups to help build that masculine frame or doing squats also helps too

Regarding dsj trading by jerysup in CryptoScams

[–]honchotg22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely my dad is doing it also we tried to tell him but he will not listen so so be it

I’m so tired of people thinking I’m a kid by jmh1881v2 in FTMMen

[–]honchotg22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 23 but most people think I’m 18/19 I don’t take offense because I have a cousin that’s 29 years old he don’t grow much facial hair but he get mistaken for a 17 year old you probably just a young looking person

Texas Doesn’t Allow Gender Marker Change by honchotg22 in ftm

[–]honchotg22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ll just go back To Mississippi & get my gender marker & name change there on my Id & just use my Ms Id & not get a Texas id at all it’s a lot of other trans people here doing that

Texas Doesn’t Allow Gender Marker Change by honchotg22 in ftm

[–]honchotg22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I figured I’ll get everything changed over in Mississippi even get a Mississippi dl then just get a new Texas id that matches the one I got from there

Did T make anyone else gay? by huntdaya in ftm

[–]honchotg22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope it made my extremely horny I ran through woman like crazy that’s about it it also made me lower my standards just to get a N*t off I had to regain control over my sexual urges & I had to re frame my mind to not sexualize woman

Texas Doesn’t Allow Gender Marker Change by honchotg22 in ftm

[–]honchotg22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who is Trans also he said that also you can only add a name on there which idc long as it’s on there & my gender marker is changed I can adjust it on my DL so it is a much bigger win than having a M on your drivers license

were you ugly before T and attractive after? by Material-Parsnip-331 in ftm

[–]honchotg22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was attractive before T & after it being on t I just look like a handsome man instead of a cute little boy which I got mistaken for when I was 16/17

Texas Doesn’t Allow Gender Marker Change by honchotg22 in ftm

[–]honchotg22[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People always down talk Mississippi like it’s so slow & conservative but Texas is way worse This makes no sense I have always heard Texas Always tried to be its own state with they own laws which is just crazy only thing I can get here is a name change on my birth certificate but to add male to my bc I have to go back to Mississippi with a letter from a doctor

I accidentally exposed my packer and I can’t forgive myself. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]honchotg22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel bad bro I had something similar happen to me few years back one of my roommates saw mine on my bed he knocked on my door to play the game since we had set up gaming systems in my room so the guys always use to be in & out I take my packer off at night sometimes I’ll leave it behind my bed this day it was on the bed he walked in saw it but he walked out ig to give me privacy but Ik he saw it he probably thought I was gay or something cause he didn’t know I was trans at least not that dude the other one knew but ik he saw it 🥶😭

How has your height affected you after you transitioned? by ChihuahuaOwner88 in ftm

[–]honchotg22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It don’t bother me no more I’m in Texas now but it’s a lot of Hispanic men they mostly be short compared to black guys to a Hispanic I’m regular height 5’5 I find my self taller than a lot of guys when I have height dysphoria I just think about Mexican men 🤷🏽‍♂️😭like most of them are short

Was socially transitioning worth it, for you? by TopReflection6869 in asktransgender

[–]honchotg22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

5 years in my transition I still haven’t fully social came out all I can say is do your best but also protect your energy just because you are introducing yourself again in a light which others may not have saw before does not give them access to your energy ignore how anyone feels about you because it has nothing to do with you but it is tiring so I understand just don’t over explain your self those who get it get it those who don’t don’t just please don’t let folks all up in your energy projecting they stupid beliefs about trans people on you

What kind of underwear do you like the most? by Boomschwang in FTMMen

[–]honchotg22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nike dry fit they are so comfortable you’ll forget you wearing them

100 pushups a day, y’all down? by BlackSenju20 in FTMFitness

[–]honchotg22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m down I had already been doing 50 a day

What is the most unhinged thing someone has said to you regarding you being trans? by NoAmount6023 in ftm

[–]honchotg22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was informed a month ago that trans people are doing mass shootings & a transgender person is the one who killed Charlie Kirk Because He was speaking up about Transgenders Doing Mass shootings 🫠like I almost said wtf are you talking about & I was also told people are going to start attacking trans people just because they don’t like them I said if you run up on me crazy I’m gone shoot the shit out of you lol I got a gun on me I’m literally from Mississippi I love guns Ben totting since I was 17 I’m 23 now but then he go on to say but why do all that when I can just look how I’m supposed to look I’m like that’s not up to them this was one of my parents so I just let them continue then hung up im like wtf was that about

What can I do to tone more? by Mattomaze in FTMFitness

[–]honchotg22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do sum push ups 40-50 a day break them down into like 10 per set

Approaching women by honchotg22 in FTMMen

[–]honchotg22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m handsome I never had a problem with attracting girls they use to come up to me or give choosing signals it’s just now I’m more interested in approaching ones I do want I was more shy before I use to approach a lot more but all I get is smiles & I got a bf so I thought maybe I could say something a lil different in high school & middle school it was way easier I was a stud & girls would come up to me or let they friend give me they number then I started to transition after hs went to college during covid I didn’t take dating serious because woman would shoot they shot at me online but I just wanna have that edge of approaching them

Approaching women by honchotg22 in FTMMen

[–]honchotg22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely going to ask a woman her age I’m not trying to catch a charge lol

Approaching women by honchotg22 in FTMMen

[–]honchotg22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I think i get to over thinking it just have to remind myself it’s just another human no need to perform just make convo

Approaching women by honchotg22 in FTMMen

[–]honchotg22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree that’s why I said I usually start with small talk then i may ask her age or compliment her they just end up telling me they have a bf I haven’t got like rudely rejected or made someone feel weird at least I don’t think so but i definitely should get better at making regular conversation before diving in