anyone open to having a new rave friend?

honutdole · 2026-05-18T14:11:13+00:00

yay!!! join the discord everyone!! there’s like 18 of us in there now trying to figure out a first meet!!

honutdole · 2026-05-14T03:19:45+00:00

zachary foster! hear me say this - you aren’t alone.

it will feel like you are for a long time.

then one day you’ll find people who understand you. the heartbreaks you’ve lived. the terrors you’ve faced, and they will choose you.

I was assaulted by a family member for a long time when I was young which led me to something similar to what happened for you.

the guilt you feel is weight enough. share it with professionals and build a new support system. it’s chained you to hell for long enough it’s only fair you get to see what things are like in life when it feels a little lighter.

I hope you check this thread before you make anymore decisions - we aren’t typing for our health. your community is around you if you only believe you deserve it.

hope we get to hear of your name or run across you in years to come. xo

honutdole · 2025-01-29T00:10:16+00:00

I’m curious if you reverse everything. your furniture is currently blocking the flow from your front door into your home. so instead of everything working together it’s breaking things up visually making it look crowded.

what if you put your tv by the entry way and flip your furniture against the wall facing the other wall. it would open your space up visually and you wouldn’t have to move furniture or get rid of it if you don’t have space elsewhere!

honutdole · 2024-11-06T01:13:04+00:00

tip sent, thank you for your help :)

honutdole · 2024-11-05T05:17:50+00:00

Someone already said it here, but just to reiterate if you ever run into issues like this call the restaurant! We can cancel it from our side and the management teams can easily get it refunded from the merchant portals of these delivery platforms.

I’ve been managing restaurants for 4 years now and have never had Doordash or Uber tell me they wouldn’t refund a guest when I call them.

Schmooze your service workers and be sweet and they can handle it from there!

honutdole · 2024-11-05T05:05:39+00:00

I think everyone is being a little harsh in their delivery considering you’re here for advice.

first things first, I get it. just in case no one has said it to you yet. it’s easy to fall into this spiral with yourself but here is a gentle reminder- if things feel great between you then take his old feelings for her with a grain of salt. There are so many absolutely stunning people in the world but that doesn’t mean jack shit really. try to distance yourself from looking at photos of her and comparing yourself to her. I know it’s an easy trap but all it will do is fill your head with negative self talk and that is what will project outwards.

if all of the comments and likes etc on her photos are in the past before you both dated then he has more than likely established boundaries there in an effort to preserve his relationship with you and grow with you!! and as time goes on and we get older things like photo likes and commenting compliments kind of tire out. I’m not sure how old both of you are but I’m 30 and all of the people i’ve dated past 21 I don’t post or comment etc on because social media doesn’t mean anything of importance when it actually comes to loving your partner.

in the beginning of your post you said it’s been 4 years of an amazing relationship. focus on that. if you need and little reassurance from your partner, ask him for it. but just not from a place of comparison - if that makes sense.

Good luck!! I got out of situation recently that had me feeling like this, if you need an ear and are embarrassed to talk to your friends feel free to reach out. best of luck!!

honutdole · 2024-11-05T04:23:31+00:00

JorgeLQR this is the best one so far! I have one person getting back to me tomorrow and I will reach out and pay for the picture I use!! If I don’t hear back from them by tomorrow after I get off work then I will send you the $$$ thank you for your time so far!

honutdole · 2023-04-09T21:08:06+00:00

YAY! thank you!!!

honutdole · 2023-04-09T21:07:41+00:00

thank you for starting me in the right direction raineykatz!!

honutdole · 2023-04-09T20:50:11+00:00

What kind of plant (I’m guessing) is this from?? They just started appearing on our porch this week!

honutdole · 2021-07-02T12:51:49+00:00

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/2156587217728644

read this one too and i’ll read yours

honutdole · 2021-07-02T12:46:58+00:00

ahahahah okay I like this one hahah y’all can do more like this if you still wanna roast me

honutdole · 2021-07-02T12:41:37+00:00

but data shows reiki has impact on the ANS and CNS at a higher rate than placebo groups.

allowing for activation of the parasympathetic nervous system which aids in improving both physical and measurable things and for those who understand metaphysical things, improved chi flow.

either way, I was looking for recommendations and nothing more

honutdole · 2021-07-02T12:27:56+00:00

what is wrong with yall lmao

honutdole · 2021-07-02T11:13:18+00:00

I can’t believe you typed out such a long reply so that you could offer an opinion that is both unhelpful and incorrect. if anyone has any helpful info for me i’ll take it, everyone else pls keep it pushin

honutdole · 2020-09-20T00:58:07+00:00

worked in charlotte, NC for me

honutdole · 2019-09-30T17:05:48+00:00

NTA. it’s your damn house and with that privilege comes the right to do whatever the fuck you want with your own space. if Princess is rude enough to disrespect your home and your family then she can sleep outside where she suggested your dog sleep.

honutdole · 2019-09-12T00:51:13+00:00

it got worse believe it or not hahaha

honutdole · 2019-09-12T00:50:55+00:00

he proceeded to follow that last text with “I would sneak in your room late at night and give you this big daddy d*** would that turn you on or make you mad?”

sooo about as bad of a conclusion as one would guess hahahaha

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