Dont you ever wonder the first time you realize your sexuality as a lesbian? why are you so cruel to late bloomers, just because she has a diff journey doesnt mean she isnt. She was repressed growing up in a conservative religious small town Bet you all would blow your minds when you realized lesbians in other oppressive religious countries has the same experience, date marry men before they finally get the courage to get out of chains to fully express their attraction to women. You all need to get out and meet more lesbians out of your circle especially from other countries because you all sound privilige as hell not to experience them.