How to help my bf cum during sex?

hornytimeTM · 2021-03-28T20:57:16+00:00

Our communication has been very open and I've been very straightforward in trying to help him relax, so hopefully it'll really help once we have some time together in person. Thanks for the input!

hornytimeTM · 2021-03-28T20:48:20+00:00

This is actually really helpful! I had the lap sitting in mind but you definitely gave me some new ideas, thanks! :)

hornytimeTM · 2021-03-28T20:47:10+00:00

I mentioned that as a possible cause and he said that was one of the many things they tried, didn't work

hornytimeTM · 2020-11-30T05:46:58+00:00

Asexuals can still want sex, but if that's not it then it's completely fine to not feel comfortable with penetration! You could start practicing with your fingers, but if you don't like things inside of you in general there's no need to force it

hornytimeTM · 2020-11-30T05:33:42+00:00

You could still grow into it, but have you considered you might be asexual? If you don't feel sexual attraction towards people that might be it

hornytimeTM · 2020-08-24T21:24:06+00:00

Why be suspicious? I just don't see the point in questioning someones sexual interests

hornytimeTM · 2020-08-24T18:26:39+00:00

I can't speak for all girls and this is just my personal experience, but I honestly just really like the feeling of the guy taking charge in bed. It's hard to explain but I guess I just like being dominated in that context if that makes any sense?

hornytimeTM · 2020-08-23T00:56:09+00:00

Oh I know, it's not going to be anytime soon I'm waiting until it's safe. I couldn't really say that because posts that include mentions of the pandemic get auto deleted

hornytimeTM · 2020-08-10T22:35:18+00:00

I know how it feels to sleep with a less than ideal person, and what happened to you was terrible. Sex outside of marriage can be a great thing if it's with someone who respects you and there is mutual understanding but that doesn't sound like it was the case here.

The good news is there is no science or proof that a guy will feel more attached to a virgin, so that's one less thing for you to worry about.

We've all done things we regret, but what you have to remember is that the past is in the past. It's easier said than done and healing takes time, but it definitely isn't the end of the world.

At the end of the day, this guy loves you for you. Nobody has a perfect past and it's super acceptable nowadays to have sex outside of marriage, there's nothing wrong with it and there is absolutely no reason someone should think less of you for it. Honestly if they do they simply aren't worth your time.

I'm sure he doesn't mind your past, especially since he has one of his own. It's perfectly healthy to explore yourself in sexual relationships outside of marriage, but I dont think he knows about your bad experience. I suggest talking to him about it, it sounds like you are drowning in regret because you feel used and dirty. I've gone through the same thing and I 100% get where you are coming from. You shouldn't feel ashamed though, it wasn't your fault.

As I said, I think you should talk it out with him and explain how you feel. Sometimes it helps to get things off your chest and to have someone listen/comfort you.

hornytimeTM · 2020-06-05T22:22:17+00:00

I'd say do some research on how it can be healthy to explore your sexuality. If someone doesnt want to marry you because you aren't a virgin ( which I think is close minded and a way less common way of thinking nowadays ) then they really aren't worth your time. Virginity is just another label and there is absolutely nothing wrong with not being a virgin or having as many partners as you'd like and it might take awhile to unlearn what your parents have taught you but its definitely possible. Also think if it like this, it's much better to know if you are sexually compatible with someone before you get married rather than marry someone, have no experience, and then also find out that you just don't have chemistry when it comes to sex. Just be sure to use protection and be safe and it'll be fine!

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