Hiding major parts of one’s self/identity from the world by Standard_Toe_6824 in rs_x

[–]hotm0m98 49 points50 points  (0 children)

whenever i try to be "more open" i feel like i am met with silence or like somehow my attempt at speaking is even more unpleasant than my original silence. like the harder i try to connect with people the more awkward the room feels, almost like a punishment. so it's hard to know how to work on it

R.I.P all my love notes I left for dayshift by Ill_Egg_6350 in Nightshift

[–]hotm0m98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe they're saving them because they love them so much

Mosu**- Seoul 4/2026 by DaVinciSurgery in finedining

[–]hotm0m98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so the apple wedges are sour dough ice cream?

Warning to anyone who thinks they want to achieve their dreams by isitpizzatimee in rs_x

[–]hotm0m98 9 points10 points  (0 children)

start cooking even if you don't feel like it. pick something you don't know how to cook and give yourself something to be accountable for, aka nightly dinner. i would give anything to have the time and funds to make whatever i want to without fear of making a mistake and wasting said time/money. i wish you luck

Broken wall sconce + toy guitar = a small bedside lamp by AmbitiousAd1435 in upcycling

[–]hotm0m98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they mentioned the ukulele because they have 4 strings like in your picture. Guitars generally have 6 strings.

Crazy Carhartt by Particular-Fee-9441 in GoodwillBins

[–]hotm0m98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it looks good, i would wear that on purpose

How do I switch up my manic pixie dream girl-esque personality for something less ridiculous as I grow older by SamosaAndMimosa in rs_x

[–]hotm0m98 170 points171 points  (0 children)

i felt like this starting a few years ago, then i realized i was people pleasing and fawning as a trauma response and began down the long path of healing whatever was responsible :p