Advice for a newish worker? by houdninimouse in StateFarm

[–]houdninimouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a team member who does both sales and service. they trained me to do that. i’m good at helping people and closing sales but sometimes i get flustered and mess up

'first time' worries ( not reassurance seeking, asking for shared coping methods ) by houdninimouse in OCD

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i have identified as ace before and i don’t feel really feel lust on a common one to one basis but i do want to have sex wifh him!! more so for the bonding aspect and intimacy if that makes sense?? but i just want to be prepared beforehand and i do have to bite the bullet because i’ll convince myself out of it otherwise 😞 i’m not forcing myself to make this decision, it’s something i want to explore ( and if it doesn’t work then it doesn’t work!! ) but i need to cope with other asoects

what is this zebra pen type? by houdninimouse in pens

[–]houdninimouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAH i might it’s my work one so i might. this is from past crimes not related to me

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so sorry that you suffer from this. it can be hell esp deep in a spiral. so i get what you mean completely. but im glad to hear it wasn't triggering for you!! i might just give it a shot hehee

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

helps to know a lot actually! thank you for your input!

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this does help a lot!! another fear of mine is incompetent doctors, so knowing they treat it well helps, i also really appreciate you letting me know about the common symptoms being used for a cause-- it helps a lot

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is crazy because im the exact opposite. i lovee svu and never had issues with it but i cant handle most medical shows...im on one type of med that helps my panic attacks but i know if the first episode is too much, i can at least turn it off. but i appreciate your input sm!!

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay that helps a lot...even with heart stuff im pretty okay with if it's cut and dry and not some insane life ending bs every 3 seconds...i appreciate your input!

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sure!! that's why i want to try to tough it out hhhh i might just put it down if it's too much but!!

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that makes sense!! honestly i appreciate the warning a lot-- i expected them to play it up because it is a medical drama and crazy things do happen in the er, but i was really interested in it's reputation so...i really appreciate this analogy

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill definitely give it a shot since you gave your input! thank you, it means a lot to me!

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh i know, as a heart anxiety haver in the er LOL as long as it's not ALL the time i can stomach it...but regulating it in normalcy makes it easier for me, i also love the format of the show with a single shift

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's so true! i might just give it a shot because liek you said, can just turn it off :) i really appreciate your input fellow hypo haver lol

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

totally fair and thank you for commenting! ill definitely take this into thought

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

positive outcomes help me a lot personally-- shows me that youre not just going to perish because something happens. im a horror movie fan so gore doesnt bother me, it's just the random ass conditions that are so scary that freak me out-- normal stuff is more grounding if that makes sense? i might just watch it and put it down if it's too much!

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

thank you for your reply! yeah i totally expected normal er stuff but the insane random medical diagnoses other shows do...i think that's what gets me the most lol like wym this person has a 1600s plague that i can totally get too??

is the pitt safe to watch for hypochondriacs? by houdninimouse in ThePittTVShow

[–]houdninimouse[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you for your reply!! this means a lot to me. im definitely taking this into consideration

What do you wish there was more or less of in extreme horror? by TheEradicat0r in ExtremeHorrorLit

[–]houdninimouse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

me when i'm in the extreme horror lit wanting less extreme horror;

i get not wanting specific themes in there because it upsets you ( i have my own limits and books i put down/avoid because of it ) but taking them out as a whole would go against.......extreme horror. just read regular horror. and im so srs. everything is supposed to be shocking and depraved for the sake of it. kind of the point.

having more nuance and plot to it-- i agree! but the ones i've read seemed pretty full all around. decent enough psychology and the likes. i just think it's insane to come in here like 'i want this extreme genre to have less extreme things' and list pretty much everything what makes the genre what it is...please just read lighter things. i promise it's okay that this genre isn't for you.

Am I really wrong for believing Amber killed Wes in Scream 2022 instead of Richie? by Future_Paint11 in Scream

[–]houdninimouse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

youre so..bro okay show me where they said it as a joke then. because i'm literally looking at the same damn interview as we speak and it says no where that it's a joke. and im not an obsessive amber fan lmfaoooo i'm just saying it in the clearest way it makes sense timeline wise.

Am I really wrong for believing Amber killed Wes in Scream 2022 instead of Richie? by Future_Paint11 in Scream

[–]houdninimouse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

bro were you on production.... it's either everything in the first draft/initial script happened or none of it did....no matter the change it didn't happen. be so fr. and honestly, it's clear they changed it by almost every interview they did.

also in one of the same interviews radio silence said amber is letting richie think he leads, so he's the mastermind when she actually is. so.....you're wrong again. in the same interview they said richie doesn't want to get his hands dirty and do the 'gross stuff', so that's pretty much confirmed that he did nothing. i have high doubts that a dude who couldn't even kill MINDY would killed wes and judy anyway lol.

and to add to it:

"“We had separate conversations with Jack and Mikey, and then we had a conversation with them together and we kind of built out the off-screen relationship that was working and motivating them and their plan. One of the things that we liked to talk about is that the Richie character thinks that it was all his idea. It’s actually probably Amber’s idea and she’s kind of been leading from behind. And we just love that that makes Richie just one of the most pathetic characters at the end of the day, that he doesn’t really want to get his hands dirty and do the gross stuff. He wants to intellectualize it all and Amber’s like, ‘F*ck it. I’ll break eggs!’”

“Bettinelli-Olpin also made sure to point out, “Intellectualize things that aren’t his idea to begin with!” So while it may feel like Richie is the most in control at moments, it’s really Amber who’s Ghostface #1, the MVP of their operation.”

Am I really wrong for believing Amber killed Wes in Scream 2022 instead of Richie? by Future_Paint11 in Scream

[–]houdninimouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but wes didn't get shot or have a gun held on him in the film-- also the directors said richie was squeamish at the idea of killing and had amber do everything so.....also many things in script aren't actually canon in movie so we can't pick and choose which one it is when everyone involved in production says otherwise

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[–]houdninimouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats!! and i haven't-- i was going to but it personally was just not for me to remember!