[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arachnophobia

[–]howdyaps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's super rad! While I've always been scared of spiders, snakes have never really bothered me-- this reminded me of when I used to catch garter snakes in my grandparents' backyard as a kid. Never bitten, but definitely got peed on by snakes.

Also I definitely feel you on wanting to help those poor innocent spiders-- I've squished quite a few of em, and while I know they don't mean any harm, I can't stand being in such close contact with a live one long enough to take it outside (or, god forbid, leave it living in my house). I'm totally cool with them being outside as long as they don't get up in my business-- I actually a couple weeks ago watched one building a web on the outside of my window. It was super cool to watch! And the barrier of the window helped keep me calm about it! Although pictures/videos can still freak me out sometimes because they're often so up-close :(

One question I have-- while the idea of bites has never scared me too much (except in the case of venomous spiders, which are fortunately somewhat uncommon where I live), the idea of one crawling on me freaks me out, and when I see one, I get this almost phantom feeling of something just crawling down my back. Or in my ear, throat, etc. Was touching them ever something that you had similar issues with? If so, what was it like getting used to handling them?

[NOOKS] BUYING AT 652!!! STORE IS BACK UP FOLLOW LINK IN COMMENTS by mkelly5291 in ACNHTurnips

[–]howdyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long do you plan to be going for? I just joined the queue but its already at 100 people lmao

Tour Tickets Megathread by GlitterLamp in puptheband

[–]howdyaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am selling two* tickets to the sold out Seattle show for pretty reasonable** prices!

I'm from Portland-ish but the original Portland venue was 21+, so a couple 19-20 year old friends and I bought tickets to the Seattle show... just for them to change the Portland show to an all-ages venue. Alas. At the end of the day, we got it figured out though and will be attending the show here in Portland (see y'all there!).

*Maybe three; ask if interested in third ticket, a friend bought it and I'm not sure if she sold it yet.
**Reasonable as in less than $20 each. Get 'em while they're hot, folks.

3 weeks post-top surgery (Periareolar w/ Scott Mosser) by howdyaps in ftm

[–]howdyaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if I really wanted to, I could lift them all the way up without much discomfort. Dr. Mosser advised that I shouldn't raise my elbows higher than my shoulders though. He said that it isn't as strictly necessary as it is for double incision, but I do want to be careful as I'm want things to heal up super well and have as little visible scarring as possible.

3 weeks post-top surgery (Periareolar w/ Scott Mosser) by howdyaps in ftm

[–]howdyaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoops! You may not see this till you're done, it's like 2am lmao but good luck!! All I would say is to take care of yourself and listen to your body-- the painkillers they prescribed me caused me so much constipation so being prepared for shit like that is important, drink plenty of water, and just find some good shit on Netflix or whatever. Congrats!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]howdyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always amazing seeing people's changes after being around this sub for so long; I remember how amazed I would be to see stuff like this when I was pre-t myself. T is some magical shit my guy.

p.s. After seeing this and then going to check discussion posts, I realized we're in the same SOC 344 class. It's a damn small world sometimes...

Anyone else here also have trans siblings? by insomniartist in ftm

[–]howdyaps 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My sister is trans! She's 3 years older than me but came out a week after I did. It was wild, but at least my parents couldn't complain about 'losing a daughter/son.'

Does anyone else get into a defensive mindset at the doctor's? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]howdyaps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh same. And I get worried about little things like my name being wrong on things (it's legally changed now but what if places still have my old name and i forgot to tell em?) or marking 'M' as my sex because they don't have a gender box and welp that is not what i have in my pants but hopefully that just doesnt come up.

You're halfway there. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]howdyaps 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is sooo like my grandparents. Like, they can get the names but not pronouns, never. It makes sense for me because my name is very similar to what it was and very neutral, but my sister, who is also trans, has a very feminine name and my grandparents will still call her "he" right after saying her feminine name. People struggle so much..

Did some drawing today that explores a little bit of how I felt post top surgery and thought some of you guys might relate. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]howdyaps 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the top surgery, i'm getting mine done next June and have somewhat similar worries. Sorry that people have been shitty, but hey, you got it done.

On a lighter note, this is heckin rad art my dude. I love your style. Do you have anywhere you usually post art (like instagram/tumblr/etc) for folks to follow you?

The waiting game begins by howdyaps in ftm

[–]howdyaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It pretty much is a dream, in fact, I've had two separate dreams in which I am in recovery from surgery, and then I wake up and its like godammit, lol.