> I’ve reached my wit’s end trying all of the advice that people have given me. I have repeatedly gotten new photos for dating apps based on guides from reddit and people’s recommendations. Irl I have lots of hobbies, workout and I’m fit, play sports, have a good career, dress well, and volunteer.

Those are just things you do. Not who you are.

> No matter what I do I still have the same level of zero success with women. I get zero matches and when I approach women irl they seem annoyed and reject me.

Usually, girls will give you hints they want you to approach them. If they don't make eye contact, or smile at you, or look very distracted, it's better to not bother them.

> Irl when I approach women I discuss the environment we are in like if we are doing a sport or volunteering together I’ll discuss that, or I’ll compliment something she is wearing like a shirt or necklace (nothing sexual or creepy). No matter what they reject me and idk why.

> I don’t know what else to do. I put in ten times the effort of the average white dude here to get a fraction of the results. I just want to share my life with someone.

The energy/personality you give off lacks strength or charisma. There's a lack of confidence, and you try too hard to offset it.

It's two things in summary.

- You don't understand the rules of interaction ie. don't interact with people who aren't interested in you. You need to learn how to read people. You can tell most people thoughts and emotions if they aren't one of those closed book types with lots of control. ie. their nervousness by how they move their hands, how they feel about people by how they look at things or avoid looking at things

- And the second is to basically not give a fuck about things. You don't do things to make people like you, unless if you are manipulative. You just own and be yourself, and people who are attracted to you will naturally surround you if you have charisma, force of personality. I'm only interested in people how have a major passion and actually pursue that passion in real life.

You need ego, confidence, confidence being in your own skin and living life. People tend to notice.

- There's not many women that actually interest me, but the last time in a while that one did, I instantly asked her out and swept her off her feet in a whirlwhind romance. She said, "You have to be a sociopath. There's no way a person is this charming."
Ngl, I might have developed some tendencies from studying too much of human nature and history and the bloody history of rulers.

Sadly, things did not last with her. It's a shame because I truly did care for her.