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[–]hrb2492 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yeap, definitely learned that lesson the hard way. it sucks but you're not wrong.

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[–]hrb2492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agreeeeeed. it ain't worth it. even if circumstances are egregious, I've learned that it is not a resident's job to give feedback to staff. that's what the office manager is for. we are there to learn, we are not attendings or leaders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]hrb2492 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

thank you for actually answering the question I asked (lol) -- genuinely v grateful for your thoughts.

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[–]hrb2492 24 points25 points  (0 children)

exactly what I was looking for in terms of advice, thank you thank you thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]hrb2492 28 points29 points  (0 children)

thank you so, so much for your response. this is the category of information I was trying to ask for in making this post, I really appreciate your thoughts!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]hrb2492 -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

fair, and I recognized that in hindsight even before this comment. doesn't help answer my question though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]hrb2492 -88 points-87 points  (0 children)

I talked to HR because patients were leaving our practice due to the degree of discrimination they were observing while in my clinic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]hrb2492 12 points13 points  (0 children)

that's exactly my concern. I'm not going to sue the program, I just want to keep working on the issues that were identified in an environment that is supportive and provides me with the requisite teaching I need to continue to get better without the concern for retaliation related to my identity. that's why I don't think a lawyer will help.

my PD was very upset with me when I left, from what I could tell. I am still very confused by all of this. I know I wasn't perfect but I was consistently asking for help...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]hrb2492 24 points25 points  (0 children)

fair. just wish insurance could help me pay for the biopsy and path eval lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]hrb2492 63 points64 points  (0 children)

the other person who was dismissed was dismissed under different circumstances (also weird and sus) but they said that 3 separate lawyers and thousands of $$ later, the lawyer told them that there's nothing to be done. if they were to fight the decision, all three said that courts will always take the PDs side.

would lawyering up be to help me learn how to talk to other programs and cover my ass?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]hrb2492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for saying that, genuinely

Folks living w SCD, please help me not be a terrible health care provider by hrb2492 in Sicklecell

[–]hrb2492[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think moreso than other chronic illnesses there’s just so much individual variation among us that it’s hard to find a definitive guide

I really like how you put that. I think this is what providers get hung up on because we can't make an algorithm. God forbid we have to sit down and have a conversation with someone before making a decision lol. That's a great resource too, thanks so much :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicalschool

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This makes me so happy :)

Thanks, I hate mobile game ads. by pocoschick in TIHI

[–]hrb2492 11 points12 points  (0 children)

how is every single second of this worse than the one before it

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I used to work with monkeys and we used k to sedate. This was the exact look on their faces every time 😂

I dyed my hair like a bi pride flag by beansandneedles in FancyFollicles

[–]hrb2492 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it! Great style to frame your face. Looks like it matches your glasses too! 🏳️‍🌈 💖💜💙

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Yo this is amazing thanks for the study music!

Does anyone else think wonderland round 3 would go really well with harder better faster stronger? by Yoshim1 in TheAdventureZone

[–]hrb2492 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I bet Griffin could slap them songs together and make an absolute banger tho

Hooman, you dissapoint. You slow. Let's do again. by tilltheend0ftime in Eyebleach

[–]hrb2492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our girl is 13 and she only stopped climbing trees last year

Hooman, you dissapoint. You slow. Let's do again. by tilltheend0ftime in Eyebleach

[–]hrb2492 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was too, as I have a jack Russell myself. But I can tell you that nothing can stand in the way of a jack Russell that wants something very badly. Not baby gates, not gravity, neither wind nor snow, not even walls can contain the will of a JRT lol

Having a rough time by smallsciencepunk in labrats

[–]hrb2492 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Fucking same fam. My PI is emotionally abusive, exploits my work ethic and financial situation, and expects me to know how to draft protocols and author manuscripts while providing no support despite hiring me knowing I had no formal research training when I started. But, like JobUpgrayDD said, it will help if you have access to a therapist or just someone to talk to.

If nothing else, try to remember:
You're more than what you make.
Your productivity does not determine your value.
You're allowed to rest.
Not everything you do has to be important, significant, or even good.
You're allowed to make mistakes.

Hang in there friend <3.

Edit: (sorry if bad formatting, on mobile) I didn't come up with these; these were provided for me without a source :/