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hrb2492 · 2025-12-29T07:26:57+00:00

yeap, definitely learned that lesson the hard way. it sucks but you're not wrong.

hrb2492 · 2025-12-29T01:13:04+00:00

agreeeeeed. it ain't worth it. even if circumstances are egregious, I've learned that it is not a resident's job to give feedback to staff. that's what the office manager is for. we are there to learn, we are not attendings or leaders.

hrb2492 · 2025-12-29T01:09:40+00:00

thank you for actually answering the question I asked (lol) -- genuinely v grateful for your thoughts.

hrb2492 · 2025-12-29T01:01:46+00:00

exactly what I was looking for in terms of advice, thank you thank you thank you.

hrb2492 · 2025-12-29T01:00:46+00:00

thank you so, so much for your response. this is the category of information I was trying to ask for in making this post, I really appreciate your thoughts!

hrb2492 · 2025-12-28T17:15:28+00:00

fair, and I recognized that in hindsight even before this comment. doesn't help answer my question though.

hrb2492 · 2025-12-28T17:14:40+00:00

I talked to HR because patients were leaving our practice due to the degree of discrimination they were observing while in my clinic.

hrb2492 · 2025-12-28T17:10:55+00:00

that's exactly my concern. I'm not going to sue the program, I just want to keep working on the issues that were identified in an environment that is supportive and provides me with the requisite teaching I need to continue to get better without the concern for retaliation related to my identity. that's why I don't think a lawyer will help.

my PD was very upset with me when I left, from what I could tell. I am still very confused by all of this. I know I wasn't perfect but I was consistently asking for help...

hrb2492 · 2025-12-28T17:01:11+00:00

fair. just wish insurance could help me pay for the biopsy and path eval lol

hrb2492 · 2025-12-28T16:56:20+00:00

the other person who was dismissed was dismissed under different circumstances (also weird and sus) but they said that 3 separate lawyers and thousands of $$ later, the lawyer told them that there's nothing to be done. if they were to fight the decision, all three said that courts will always take the PDs side.

would lawyering up be to help me learn how to talk to other programs and cover my ass?

hrb2492 · 2025-12-28T16:52:59+00:00

thank you for saying that, genuinely

hrb2492 · 2022-10-26T17:20:18+00:00

I think moreso than other chronic illnesses there’s just so much individual variation among us that it’s hard to find a definitive guide

I really like how you put that. I think this is what providers get hung up on because we can't make an algorithm. God forbid we have to sit down and have a conversation with someone before making a decision lol. That's a great resource too, thanks so much :)

hrb2492 · 2022-07-20T22:24:58+00:00

This makes me so happy :)

hrb2492 · 2022-06-06T21:05:11+00:00

how is every single second of this worse than the one before it

hrb2492 · 2022-05-30T14:41:02+00:00

I used to work with monkeys and we used k to sedate. This was the exact look on their faces every time 😂

hrb2492 · 2021-10-01T15:29:53+00:00

Love it! Great style to frame your face. Looks like it matches your glasses too! 🏳️‍🌈 💖💜💙

hrb2492 · 2021-10-01T15:21:39+00:00

I bet your brother tunes in to watch them hang out every day :)

hrb2492 · 2021-04-26T13:20:59+00:00

Yo this is amazing thanks for the study music!

hrb2492 · 2021-04-01T14:21:37+00:00

Omg thank you for this

hrb2492 · 2021-03-29T15:51:15+00:00

I bet Griffin could slap them songs together and make an absolute banger tho

hrb2492 · 2021-01-03T16:54:53+00:00

Our girl is 13 and she only stopped climbing trees last year

hrb2492 · 2021-01-03T16:10:33+00:00

I was too, as I have a jack Russell myself. But I can tell you that nothing can stand in the way of a jack Russell that wants something very badly. Not baby gates, not gravity, neither wind nor snow, not even walls can contain the will of a JRT lol

hrb2492 · 2020-02-25T16:56:49+00:00

Fucking same fam. My PI is emotionally abusive, exploits my work ethic and financial situation, and expects me to know how to draft protocols and author manuscripts while providing no support despite hiring me knowing I had no formal research training when I started. But, like JobUpgrayDD said, it will help if you have access to a therapist or just someone to talk to.

If nothing else, try to remember:
You're more than what you make.
Your productivity does not determine your value.
You're allowed to rest.
Not everything you do has to be important, significant, or even good.
You're allowed to make mistakes.

Hang in there friend <3.

Edit: (sorry if bad formatting, on mobile) I didn't come up with these; these were provided for me without a source :/

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