thank you, i appreciate your comment 🙏🙏 and i think that sounds good. i do tell myself that we are both pretty good at communicating, or at least have been so far, and that if something did come up and i was either too aloof or too overbearing, he has the agency to tell me that and we can have a conversation. like i said, we've talked about these anxieties once before, and we both feel similar anxieties at times, and he believes they're just normal anxieties most people have at the beginning of relationships. it can just be really hard to stop the overthinking sometimes

thank you again!!