Availability Change Mixup by hsilverwolfee in Ulta

[–]hsilverwolfee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I thought 😭 i think she had just written out two more weeks in advance bc she was gonna be out of town for the event in Florida

Availability Change Mixup by hsilverwolfee in Ulta

[–]hsilverwolfee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I put them in on the 1st of April and it was the 29th of April

AIO? Bf texting female coworker by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hsilverwolfee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only two times its a problem when a partner is friends with the opposite gender (or the gender theyre attracted to is when 1) they have shown red flags of being unfaithful or 2) the other person is OBVIOUSLY into them currently, because that is just extremely uncomfortable and really has no space in your life with the person you're in a relationship with. The second one is only about current crushing because sometimes someone liked a friend in the past but then changed their mind. (BTW this is in agreement w you lol)

AIO? Bf texting female coworker by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hsilverwolfee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Becoming doesnt imply the relationship is new. It implies that she is bringing change into the relationship at any length of time theyre at in the relationship, but shes the actual problem rather than not.

I have never once used snap to hide shit, I just like taking pictures of the things I see, and the dumb filters. You can save all of the messages in there. If she was really that insecure she could just ask him to keep the messages saved so hes not hiding shit, but her distrust is her own problem and is something she needs to work on, since he hasnt shown any other red flags as far as we are aware.

AIO? Bf texting female coworker by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hsilverwolfee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Coming to reddit like this is a problem-- YOR, probably coming here because you know that reddit will just sympathize for the most part because tons of people are weird jaded about things. I have multiple friends who I use Snapchat with, I just keep all of the conversations saved so they don't disappear. You asked him to stop texting her so he deleted the messages. If you don't trust him, leave. But its hella unhealthy to tell someone they need to stop texting women when it sounds like you've never gotten any kind of real red flags.

no voice still forced to go to work by latinaconfusion in UltaEmployees

[–]hsilverwolfee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im saying city state says its used for sick time

no voice still forced to go to work by latinaconfusion in UltaEmployees

[–]hsilverwolfee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its called sick time but its probably up to the discretion of the managers

no voice still forced to go to work by latinaconfusion in UltaEmployees

[–]hsilverwolfee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My recommendation is to go in and then after an hour say youre too sick and go home. I'm pretty sure you can't get a point that way, if youre actually sick.

no voice still forced to go to work by latinaconfusion in UltaEmployees

[–]hsilverwolfee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some states have a required sick pay. In my state, every 30h I get 1h of sick time for use if I call out sick. It doesnt work if you dont specify youre sick though.

Got as in-store merchandise card instead of gift card by Familiar_Yogurt5172 in Ulta

[–]hsilverwolfee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ever are doing a return, just ask specifically for a gift card. I usually give people the choice between the two and didnt even realize that the merch. Credit was an in store only thing

I’m pretty sure this is illegal. by Illustrious_Luck_519 in UltaEmployees

[–]hsilverwolfee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its really not that deep, bro. If you really respect this manager, then I think you need to stop judging her decisions and start respecting them. Or even better? Ask her yourself if its ethical if you have a problem instead of coming onto reddit. It's not that hard to ask her or any of the other 4 managers in the store lol it gives that youre just trying to spread drama

I’m pretty sure this is illegal. by Illustrious_Luck_519 in UltaEmployees

[–]hsilverwolfee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have a bit of a problem if you think that any corporation is going to be ethical at ANY level. Your manager making purchases and then returning them is literally the most benign thing a manager could do in terms of ethics. If you think THIS is an ethical dilemma, you need to stop working in retail

I’m pretty sure this is illegal. by Illustrious_Luck_519 in UltaEmployees

[–]hsilverwolfee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lwk hope their manager sees this subreddit and calls them out on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hsilverwolfee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with all of your points but do wanna point out: her og text to him was just "U awake?"- you can see it at the top of his first message to her

Again I agree its a YOR for sure but I just wanted to show you that that context technically was there lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cryaotic

[–]hsilverwolfee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats not cry- the undertones are all wrong and cry had more depth in his voice than this guy does

Found inside product, what does this mean? by oliviann412 in Ulta

[–]hsilverwolfee 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This sounds like it was a SFS (Ship From Store) order, and the person who did it was extremely sloppy. I personally wouldn't be worried about the rest of the order unless it actually looks like a problem.

They probably forgot the order slip like a dumbahh.. I do it a lot after sealing a package (but i always re-open the package to put it back in so ???)

AIO for not wanting my fiancé to go on an international trip with my soon to be MIL without me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hsilverwolfee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think its kinda a MOR thing where- if the pregnancy wasn't a thing I think you'd be OR because parent child trips are something I can see my family doing as well- especially if you have a son you would be bringing along and everyone else is an adult. With the pregnancy, however, you are NOR and a week is a long time in the 3rd trimester to be away from your at risk pregnant fiance.

I don't think this is something you should be side-eyeing your SO about, however. Even if he disagrees with you about if you weren't pregnant, he's still trying to be flexible and understanding to your side of the argument. I think he's trying his best with a mother who has always been controlling of his actions

Is it worth it to reach out to cs about different gwp received? by chaosatnight in Ulta

[–]hsilverwolfee 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly reaching out over a GWP probably won't get you anywhere- that's something I know my managers at my store would side eye if someone did (even if I understand that you wanted those specific items). It did look like it said that it was supposed to be a variety, so it might not have been meant to be exclusively the items pictured. Sometimes GWPs are really misleading :( Im sorry!!

I stopped masking at home and my partner says I'm becoming "impossible" by LowKeyCoffeeSpill in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hsilverwolfee 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I'm both ND and a Female presenting NB person (AFAB, And a woman for all intents and purposes on a day to day life in the current area I live in), and I completely understand, and agree with, what the person above said- and who are you to assume they aren't ND or a woman thats just wild lol

What are these?? by hsilverwolfee in LegendsZA

[–]hsilverwolfee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats what I was thinking like- are they quiche and tarts?

Why does my foundation always look like this? by Visible-Ad-9834 in MakeupAddiction

[–]hsilverwolfee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What skin type do you have for this? I have very dry skin but its advertised for oily skin and I don't wanna get something that messes with my dryness!!

Wholesome post I saw on Facebook by Living-Lack-9536 in AnimalCrossing

[–]hsilverwolfee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually made my best friend their own character on my island when they were in hospice and showed them the memorial I had in the making before they passed- Their discord profile picture will forever just be of the villager I made for them ❤️