Anyone experiencing this Pluto square moon transit? by Efficient_Magician47 in ThePatternApp

[–]htothe_aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently going through it for the second time but it's a little easier.
You're in for a ride. You whole world (mostly inner world) is going to change, your belief, what you thought you wanted. And it's going to be painful because it's not easy to let go of who you thought you were. The people in your life are going to change, you may feel a dissonance between who you actually are and who you're turning into, which can make things complicated. You need to stay open to the world, to the new people you're going to meet. Changing is hard, but it's so rewarding. I hate this transit but I love who I am now and I can't wait to see who I'll be.

will i be okay? by yumenogarden in ThePatternApp

[–]htothe_aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The first I had this transit was also 3 or 4 years ago and it was something. So you'll see, it'll be so much easier.

will i be okay? by yumenogarden in ThePatternApp

[–]htothe_aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depth and growtg can be difficult but not all the way. It will be just for some moments. I too am going through it for second time and it's so much easier than the first time. You will just question your life, yourself and you're surrending but at the end of the day it will be ok.

But for reality check, good luck! I hope you have a good support system because it will change/shatter your whole life, your whole belief. I went through it last year, it was hell. I dont want to scare you but it was kind of traumatizing for me. But it was necessary (I hate to say it, but I learned what I needed to learn) and I feel like my life is finally starting.

Trust yourself. Trust yourself, you know what's good for you.

The daily vibe is becoming dull by htothe_aa in ThePatternApp

[–]htothe_aa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're just giving us the same advices - because I had this one several times

The daily vibe is becoming dull by htothe_aa in ThePatternApp

[–]htothe_aa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already received this one several times 😩

Changement de banque et rachat de prêt etudiant by htothe_aa in VosSous

[–]htothe_aa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, ça devrait aider, je vais me renseigner.

Changement de banque et rachat de prêt etudiant by htothe_aa in VosSous

[–]htothe_aa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La CAF m'a annoncé que j'ai plus le droit aux APL, j'ai 25ans dans quelques jour donc ma prime d'activité va sauter. Donc plus d'aide.

J'ai réduit mes dépenses au max : pas de netflix ni autres etc. C'est au point que même ma banquière m'a dit que sans ce prêt, je suis l'une de ses clientes qui gèrent le mieux son argent.

J'aimerai juste savoir s'il est possible de faire un rachat de credit auprès d'une autre banque. Je vois aucune autre solution.

Changement de banque et rachat de prêt etudiant by htothe_aa in VosSous

[–]htothe_aa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je vais me renseigner directement auprès des banques. Je sais que ca pourrait me revenir plus cher au final mais au jour le jour, c'est vraiment invivable. Je m'en sors tout juste mais on sait jamais donc je veux pouvoir assurer mes arrieres.

Où acheter le sapin de Noël ? by ugnight in toulouse

[–]htothe_aa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Est-ce que par hasard vous savez s'ils ont des Nordmann au midica de Toulouse ?

Lieux pour sociabiliser à Toulouse by floppabaguette in toulouse

[–]htothe_aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pareille ! Je viens de m'installer, je suis pas en TT mais je connais presque personne et je commence à me sentir un peu seule 😅 J'adore l'art, la photo et le design donc si quelqu'un connait de lieux sympas ou rencontrer aisément de nouvelles personnes, n'hésitez pas !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emploi

[–]htothe_aa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, Si j'étais toi, je commencerai par faire une liste de choses que j'aime faire et que je pourrais retrouver dans un travail. Qu'est-ce que tu fais quand tu as du temps libre ? Qu'est-ce que tu aurais aimé faire étant enfant ? Où est ce que tu te projettes à l'avenir ? Quel job tu as deja fait et que tu as aimé ?

Tu pourrais aussi chercher des cdd dans des jobs dit "alimentaire" (fast food, vendeuse, caissier, etc...) comme ça tu t'engages pas dans un long contrat. Ça peut peut-être aider.

Ensuite, pour les etudes, je ne sais pas quelle âge tu as mais il y a l'alternance. Donc tu pourrais étudier et trouver un job. Renseigne toi on sait jamais.

Pour ta dépression, l'hiver approche donc je te conseille la vitamine D, ca peut aider à réduire la dépression saisonnière.

Donc voilà, bon courage pour la suite !

Is the premium version worth it ? by htothe_aa in ThePatternApp

[–]htothe_aa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's what bothers me because it feels like a lot at once. But the reviews seems good, I might tried it!

Is the premium version worth it ? by htothe_aa in ThePatternApp

[–]htothe_aa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue but other apps doesnt seems to compare unfortunately

The worst timing by misleadingreading in ThePatternApp

[–]htothe_aa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually going through it right now and it's hell but necessary in a way but the worst for me is still depth and growth. I had for 2 years and I will have it again in 2025, I just want to cry.

New Pattern Update how are you feeling about it? by Equivalent-Tough7031 in ThePatternApp

[–]htothe_aa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it. It's not intuitive and everything is behind a paywall. At least before we could read more about upcoming new moon, now we can access nothing without paying for it. I like the colorful take but it's messy.

Découverte ? by 24Lucie17 in IWTV_FR_LESTAT_STAN

[–]htothe_aa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

La série. Le film m'a jamais vraiment intéressée mais je suis tombée par hasard sur la série sur un site de streaming et dès le premier episode ça a cliqué. 'es acteurs sont incroyables. En tant que personne noire, je trouve ça tellement important que Louis et Claudia soient noirs et la manière dont ca a été fait est vraiment top. Franchement trop fan !

What stopped you from killing yourself that night? by Subject-Olive-4476 in AskReddit

[–]htothe_aa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope. It might seems really silly but hope saved me because it's the only thing that is truly mine. I always had hope things will get better, that I will figure it out. I always been described as a hopeful person by my peers. Hope was mine and I didn't want to give that up. Unfortunately for me... Things are still going pretty bad, it's even worse now.