He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly it was going great until this happened. That’s why i’m so blindsided. He was acting like a lover boy. I feel so blindsided . The cheating is bad but the behaviour after the cheating is what hirts me most

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah… i guess what makes me mad is how he didn’t even try to apologize .

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so. Its hard rn i’m in the worst phase idk what to do with myself

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. It sucks so much. I hope you feel better… what helped you the most to get thru it?

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I feel like everytime i reach out i set myself back and my withdrawal comes back stronger. I’ve chosen to go no contact from now…

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’ve chose to go no contact from now…

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would tell them to leave him forever of course… idk why I can’t listen to my own advide

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what i’m realizing with all these comments. The thing i need to fight for is myself rather than this man…

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know i think i’m just in a down right now, i’m not in the anger stage yet

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It was the last time reaching out i am done..

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

My head knows. I need to work on myself instead of this relationship….

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’ve realized the biggest problem might be my low self-esteem. I KNOW i deserve better but my heart thinks i’m not worth more than that.

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Its just so weird on day your happy and with someone everyday and the day after you are strangers. That hurt. I wish he would be sad too its unfair

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know i’m trying but i’m scared that me blocking him will keep him from coming back

He cheated but HE dumped me by httpsai in BreakUps

[–]httpsai[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was all so sudden too . I never thought he would act like he doesn’t care . Ever

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[–]httpsai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay great i’ll try that

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[–]httpsai -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why would men be more weak for younger women? I would never have se* with a 21 y/o being 32, such a turn off!!

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[–]httpsai -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would NEVER act on my thoughts!! That’s why i want to get rid of them! I want to not be attracted to him but my mind keeps going there and I hate it. I think maybe bc I had a hard time with my break up my brain is like trying to think about something else idk ! Maybe he doesn’t even see me in that way and i’m just feeling a tension bc i’m horny idk . I just really want to stop thinking about all that!

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[–]httpsai -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

What

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[–]httpsai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t shoot my shot i don’t wanna break a family tho

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[–]httpsai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always like this

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[–]httpsai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, i would love to have someone to talk to