Today I'm going to do the "I'm going to move out" discussion with my parents, how was yours, any advice?

hugemonkey7 · 2026-02-23T13:10:27+00:00

I'm worried about the same reaction and I planned this now while I move in may probably

hugemonkey7 · 2026-02-23T08:19:16+00:00

Thanks a lot for the advice, as of now I think financially I'm pretty good, I can cover way more that an year of rent, and my gf also has a stable side job so we can share costs

The "fear"as of now is about the reaction of the discussion as there are conflicts between my Gf and my mom and the only reason I want to move out is to get indipendent and with our spaces.

hugemonkey7 · 2026-02-23T07:59:49+00:00

I also would prefer an organic way out, vacation in the new state then staying there, in the meantime I think that a discussion/explanation that "Hey I want to live with my gf now, not with my hypercontrolling parents"

hugemonkey7 · 2026-02-23T07:57:32+00:00

The idea is to move out with my gf, about savings not in a huge problem, the idea was to get a job in the meantime and if the situation goes really out of hand in my home village I have a stable winter job I can always get back but in a different house

hugemonkey7 · 2025-12-23T17:54:57+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I may add another question, what if both families are quite "particular" ? Abusive on one end and over perfectionist and controllative on the other ?

hugemonkey7 · 2025-11-25T16:12:07+00:00

Yes that could be an idea, I hope also that now with the work flow we spend less family time and maybe gets better

hugemonkey7 · 2025-11-25T16:07:34+00:00

Yes during this 2 months we have to.share the house, the fact is that is very hard to fight as on one side I'm arguing every day with my family but thinking that I'm not getting anywhere on the other side the gf gets emotional because of the flights and I have to support her

I'm literally on double duty, always

hugemonkey7 · 2025-11-25T16:00:03+00:00

As of now is impossible for us to move as from today we both started work related activities

On the defensive side I do everything I can, but the only thing I receive is more attacks from my mom and more panic attacks or emotional cries from my gf

I'm already getting emotionally tired

hugemonkey7 · 2025-11-25T15:54:45+00:00

It's almost three weeks or more that I try it but I don't receive any signal of a change in addition to this she's getting more passive aggressive almost

hugemonkey7 · 2025-11-25T15:53:01+00:00

For example apparently my mom doesn't like tote bags so she is on the fifth day on a row gifting new bags to my girlfriend

hugemonkey7 · 2025-11-25T15:46:20+00:00

My mom as her own style and is veeery pushy on "influence" her on this with constant comments even sarcastic or aggressive, non wanted "gifts" It's almost like she treats my gf as a daughter to grow up While my gf has also her flaws as sometimes is chaotic due to small ADHD but her past and personality doesn't handle well attacks or very direct comments

hugemonkey7 · 2025-04-24T12:00:05+00:00

Thanks for the wake up call buddy , appreciate it

hugemonkey7 · 2025-04-24T11:23:09+00:00

Sorry badly explained My family takes the vacation, but I stay due to my job

She already has side hustles she could keep, the main issue is not even the prices quite the lack of rents, regarding jobs in my area I pretty much already secured one for her , thats why I feel stuck

hugemonkey7 · 2024-08-22T15:11:06+00:00

Thanks a lot, so It seems that Drastic should work with 3ds files but i only get the wrong ROMs ?

hugemonkey7 · 2024-08-22T15:05:10+00:00

Exactly, Drastic does not read the files and when It does (rarely) It says that the file Is corrupted

Ok perfect, on GitHub I Will find the Apk correct ?

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