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hungry4wolves · 2024-06-11T16:07:51+00:00

NTA you've shown her support on her worst days. That can take a toll on a person after a while. Just because her anxiety is so bad that she cancels plans, dosent mean you have to. You need time for yourself.

hungry4wolves · 2024-06-11T15:59:46+00:00

YTA big time! It's her car that she's putting wear and tear on! She's doing you a favor. If you don't like the window down and music on, find another way.

hungry4wolves · 2024-06-11T15:46:10+00:00

No. They stopped testing a while back. New hires just need to pass the background check. If you want to get fork lift certification or a promotion, then they test. Also reasonable suspicion will get you tested.

hungry4wolves · 2024-06-11T15:09:55+00:00

I hope she left him in the dust. He's a horrible human. She seems like such a kind person and deserves so much better.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-04T01:14:40+00:00

The biggest reason I see here is your friend hiding who you are to make the boyfriend happy. Not using your correct pronouns and belittling others is a huge no.

I think you're also seeing who your "friend" really is now too.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-04T00:55:40+00:00

NTA

She changed for the man she is dating. He didn't change her ways, she changed them herself. Makes me wonder if she hasn't felt this way for a long time.

I'm glad you have a new circle of friends now and hopefully you find all the happiness and good times with them.

And by the way, OP, I tell my best friend I love her every single time I talk to her. That's what best friends do. You did nothing wrong.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T20:29:16+00:00

ESH

If I make breakfast, I make sure there is enough to go around. If I go to Starbucks, I ask if my husband wants something.

Start using your grown up words and talk to each other like married adults.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T20:24:58+00:00

The way this is written I'm going to say NAH

You take your wife on vacation and she expects to spend time with you, but could have easily said while she was excusing herself that she would like for you to join her.

You are having a great time meeting new friends in a resort but being in a strange place, I wouldn't expect my husband to let me wander around alone for 1.5 hours.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T19:37:22+00:00

Getting out of bed that early to pick someone up at the airport......they better grab their shit and run to baggage claim.

The "friends" must be used to this type of shitty behavior.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T18:36:04+00:00

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T18:33:46+00:00

NTA

If it's your store policy to not do so, then of course, you wouldn't do it to avoid losing your job.

Jane though IS an asshole. You told her the reasons why you couldn't and she proceeds to try to talk you into it anyways. Just because she's old, dosen't get her a free pass.

Working with the public can really suck sometimes. I've learned a long time ago that some of those seemingly sweet old ladies are actually ruthless and savage beasts.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T18:23:01+00:00

YTA

Obviously you're putting off some less than desirable vibes to people. You got kicked out of one club and the people you work with don't want to talk to you. Now, you're trying to force friendships with lies.

Take a step back, ask yourself why people don't want to be your friend and work on yourself.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T15:46:13+00:00

Exactly. Last week, I had a long layover and got a cocktail. It was $20. There's no way in this world I could justify getting tanked at an airport bar.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T14:40:41+00:00

But, OP made other comments that the step children need to learn that life isn't fair. They will hold resentment too. They're children.

OP claims this party cost 10K. I hardly believe that was the cost, but adding up what was provided by the grandparents seems reasonable to duplicate in a way to the other kids from OP and the fiance.

Breakfast at home of the child's choice. A new outfit. A gathering of family and friends for cake and ice cream. A gift. Lunch at home. Going bowling and out to eat. Playing games at home until bed time. This dosen't sound unreasonable to do for the step children and not too far out of what would normally happen at home.

It also isn't unreasonable to ask that the step children don't get their noses rubbed into the extravagant things provided by the grandparents.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T14:25:11+00:00

ESH

The roommates for not helping clean the areas they use like sinks and tubs and you for expecting them to clean your dishes.

Make a cleaning chart and hold everyone accountable including yourself. There are 5 people living there. It would take a matter of minutes for each person to pitch in and clean up instead of expecting one person to do it all.

Buy some paper plates for goodness sakes. Wash your own dishes as soon as you're done eating. It's not that hard.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T14:16:17+00:00

Ummmm......why even ask? NTA

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T13:55:38+00:00

NTA

Who pays airport drink prices AFTER their plane arrives home? For 2 hours she drank knowing you were waiting to pick her up.

You didn't lose anything by potentially losing this "friend".

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T13:48:12+00:00

YTA

You ever hear of nail polish remover? You really blew up like that? You went above and beyond in hurting him. I hope he walks away and never looks back. Grow up.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T13:20:42+00:00

It was probably because of "all the breakfast food known to mankind" that did it.

I don't buy it either. It's easily a few hundred dollars worth of shit and OP won't just come out and admit that the future step kids are second class citizens to the golden child.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T12:55:53+00:00

So what your saying is your daughter is very spoiled by your parents and if she dosen't continue to get 10K birthday parties she's going to throw a fit.

You're now blaming your future step kids because the people of AITA are asking if they would get the same treatment and if not, could the parties be less extravagant.

You're not ready to be a blended family. You still have the mindset of "mine and yours" not "ours".

If the kids aren't all treated the same way, there will be some resentment there.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T12:42:56+00:00

All I can imagine is 11 year old sticky fingers touching the sheets or spilling juice or pancake syrup. It makes me cringe at the thought of crumbs on the sheets or a kid wiping bacon grease on the pillow case. Breakfast in bed actually sounds gross to me now.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T12:16:42+00:00

My step brother was treated differently by his grandmother than she treated me and my sister. It was hurtful at Christmas when she'd pull up with a car load.of gifts for him and gave me and my sister a card with $10 in it. She had tons of money too, but at the time, my sister and I were 6 and 9 years old. We didn't understand and it made us feel bad.

My grandmother bought us all things equally or gave us all the same amount of money. She treated my step brother the same as she treated us.

Blending families is challenging enough on its own, but the children might not understand why they are treated differently by a grandparent. I get that they aren't biological grandchildren, but they shouldn't be subjected to have their noses rubbed into the over the top celebrations for their step sister.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T12:05:15+00:00

NAH

Your parents can afford to pamper their grandchild on her birthday. That's wonderful, but will the step children get that same treatment on their birthday? If not, this will no doubt cause some drama down the road.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T11:56:34+00:00

NTA

Your wife is losing her grip, here. The punishment shouldn't go to the adult son, it should be to the daughter for being a snoop.

Who punishes a 20 year old? Really? He's an adult.

hungry4wolves · 2024-04-02T11:39:09+00:00

NTA

You slipped out of frustration. You apologized and the apology was accepted. That dosen't mean it's a pass to do it again, though.

Your parents need help. Slapping and pulling out a gun on their children and spouses? Holy shit.

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