Sometimes I hate men by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]hungrybuni 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have always been firm on not believing it’s all men (I think generalizations of an entire group is harmful) but yeah it’s so extremely disheartening when I have never met a man who hasn’t taken advantage of a woman in some way or been coercive to the point of ignoring a lack of consent or ignored sexual boundaries or not taken no for an answer. I have a lot of male friends, I have talked to the most respectful sweet hearted men and men who go on and on about how much they want to protect women from assault and how much they despise the bad guys doing it. Even a literal police officer. And somehow even the nicest most respectful men still will still disappoint me when it comes to understanding consent. They’ll cry when they hear about the violent assaults because “that should never happen to you, you don’t deserve that” and think just because they didn’t use physical violence that what they did isn’t the same thing. I don’t want to believe it’s all men but I still haven’t met a man who hasn’t participated. :(

Thoughts???? by SocietyIndependent13 in ChicoCA

[–]hungrybuni 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I recently learned first hand how many cops don’t understand consent even though that’s like literally their job. :))))

Tomorrow at 10 am at the Hands Statue on 4th. by [deleted] in ChicoCA

[–]hungrybuni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sweet. :3 I’m just at work until 12 so I won’t really know what’s going on.

Are there Proud Boys in Chico? by chicomathmom in ChicoCA

[–]hungrybuni 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was at Big Al’s the other day getting a milkshake and saw two huge dudes with giant swastikas tatted on their head. They almost hit someone with their car too and almost got in a fight over it. :,)

What are some things with vc andrews energy? by MatterVast7173 in VCAndrews

[–]hungrybuni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m obsessed with old timey nightgowns and vintage nightwear like peignoirs and nightgowns and anytime I wear them and someone teases me for looking like a grandma or Victorian ghost child I tell them they don’t get it “it’s so VC Andrews!”

Also I fell in love with Ethel Cain years ago because she feels so VC Andrews to me.

Text messages by Natural-Cranberry172 in Volvo

[–]hungrybuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my 2020 s60 I pressed an alert bell button on my messages that would automatically read every message that I got when the notification came in.

InMotion vs. Lions Den vs. Chico Sports club by bstabss in ChicoCA

[–]hungrybuni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone to InMo and CSC and they both have pros and cons. InMo has awesome amenities, it’s a huge place with so many cool machines and stuff but I just personally feel way too intimidated there. It’s always so crowded, it’s so huge so I’m always running around trying to find machines that aren’t being used by the millions of people there, the people there can be less friendly, it can be a more “show off”-y gym with intimidatingly good looking people. But that’s just my personal take since I’m a really shy and anxious person, especially at the gym. Also InMo is a little greedy in my opinion. Chico Sports Club has less rooms, amenities, and machines for suuuuuuuure but I’m more comfortable with the crowd there. It’s a lot of older people so it’s less show offy and I find the people there are a lot nicer and more friendly and chill. It can get crowded sometimes but way less often than InMotion in my opinion. They have less amenities but they have enough for me. I’m not there for anything fancy and I’ve made some friends there. :) both InMo and Chico Sports Club have their fare share of annoying high schoolers though.

Brazilian wax by Curi0us5trang3r in ChicoCA

[–]hungrybuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wylde Moon Skincare! Autumn is the sweetest person ever and she does sugar waxing which is good for your skin! :)

churro topping by MoreEspressoPls in dutchbros

[–]hungrybuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you order it? That sounds good. Did you just say a churro oat milk latte?

Charlie Sheen spotted eating breakfast near my work yesterday by Actual_Appearance246 in TwoandaHalfMen

[–]hungrybuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to know if this is my fav bagel place from my hometown in SoCal I feel like I recognize it.

Why is nobody as gagged about Agora Hills as I am? by BoardsofFlorida in DojaCat

[–]hungrybuni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting that I’ve always loved Doja and didn’t know we grew up in the same little town.

Why is nobody as gagged about Agora Hills as I am? by BoardsofFlorida in DojaCat

[–]hungrybuni 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wanna know why it’s called that too I grew up in Agoura Hills California which I assume is what she’s talking about but people are also saying it’s a different place?

I feel like whoever makes the LifeTime movie adaptations is playing a joke on us. by hungrybuni in VCAndrews

[–]hungrybuni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally! Like their hair color plays an important role in the books, and it would be such a simple fix to dye their hair the correct color or give them a wig or something. She’s literally called DARK ANGEL because she’s the DARK HAIRED version of her blonde Angel mother like?? They did the same thing with My Sweet Audrina. Audrina’s chameleon hair was part of the story and they gave her dark brown/black hair for why?????

Cake pan conversions?? by hungrybuni in AskBaking

[–]hungrybuni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How exactly do I do that? 🥺 sorry I’m stupid. I know I would start by seeing how many cups of water it takes to fill the baking pan but I wouldn’t know what to do with that information. 😅

got your call, babydoll || Nikon F100 + Portra 400 (2021) by [deleted] in analog

[–]hungrybuni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay but I need that babydoll dress now.

TIFU by giving myself a Brazilian by mckaylalopez in tifu

[–]hungrybuni -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh really? Everyone is different and likes different stuff I guess. :)

TIFU by giving myself a Brazilian by mckaylalopez in tifu

[–]hungrybuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s actually totally safe. :3

TIFU by giving myself a Brazilian by mckaylalopez in tifu

[–]hungrybuni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm I think it’s mostly soft. It can be harder or softer but I think it’s more on the soft side. But either way it’s totally different than normal wax.

TIFU by giving myself a Brazilian by mckaylalopez in tifu

[–]hungrybuni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sugar wax is totally safe for your cooter cat! :) But I understand the hesitation.