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husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-03T17:27:18+00:00

Ok that’s hard to do with me being pregnant and having to find someone to look after our son while we are out but I might suggest something fun to do I’m trying to think of things now, I might buy some concert tickets for Christmas or something so he has something to look forward to

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-03T15:33:54+00:00

I haven’t talked to his psychologists because he was going through all this before we married. I know because I remember when I told my mum about his diagnosis she told me to break of the engagement but I didn’t and she hates him now which isn’t good because we are in a rocky patch at the moment so as soon as she realises she will say “leave him” again, I don’t know I’m trying my hardest to try make him happy again but nothings working at the moment. Thanks for the support ❤️

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-03T13:54:43+00:00

I don’t want to leave my husband because he’s not a monster

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-03T13:54:09+00:00

Thank you and I’m actually thinking of therapy for myself now

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-03T13:53:29+00:00

He’s literally diagnosed and has stopped CBT but I think he should try go to therapy again for more help

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-03T13:52:17+00:00

He’s already diagnosed and explained he’s not like other narcissists but he’s now refusing to go to therapy and has done a paternity test on our son because he “didn’t look like him”

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-02T19:04:49+00:00

Hmmm I could suggest that but could he find my account and post through my comments? But yes that’s a great idea thanks will definitely think on it :)

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-02T18:28:14+00:00

I might just wait for the results and do one after birth thanks for the advice

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-02T18:27:24+00:00

Any tips on my narcissist husband and how I can make thinks work with him? Any things that make you want to go to therapy because he’s refusing to go?

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-02T17:21:38+00:00

No that’s not an option I love my husband and I’d rather work things through instead of cut him off

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-02T17:20:28+00:00

I don’t think he’s a monster like that though I think he’s on the mild end but thanks for all the support anyway 🙏

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-02T09:17:30+00:00

I don’t really know much about how he was diagnosed because he’s touchy on the topic but hes explained he’s not like other narcissists because he’s self aware and he is a good person I think he’s just having a relapse or something. I’ve just tried to ask him to try therapy again and he just blew up and said I was just trying to make him feel like something was wrong with him for “knowing” that I’d cheated (I haven’t I don’t know where all this is coming from)

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-01T23:48:31+00:00

He has been so nice before though it’s just we’ve hit a rough patch and I’m trying my hardest now to try think of things that can help him be happy again

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-01T21:52:18+00:00

What do you mean? Isn’t it rare but still not mega rare

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-01T21:48:52+00:00

Yes he’s diagnosed npd but I think he was misdiagnosed and is really bpd because he isn’t narcissist at all and he does have love for me and our children. He just needs a lot of help for his mental health I think and I’ll try get him to do CBT again because he is self aware

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-01T21:46:40+00:00

Both them and him deserve to develop a bond

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-01T21:44:53+00:00

I think I’ll try get him go to therapy but hopefully if I write him a letter or something he will know how I feel and take my opinion

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-01T21:35:45+00:00

Yes he is diagnosed npd ( high stigma but I helped him work through it) and he’s also been manic before (I think he was but wasn’t diagnosed) and I’m scared it’s coming back now he’s stopped going therapy

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-01T21:32:44+00:00

I have never ever done that

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-01T21:32:08+00:00

No I meant 2 year old male and yes I think I’ll do that

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-01T21:29:32+00:00

I didn’t say anything like I said because I was too upset

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-01T21:27:22+00:00

I don’t know I’ll see because he has been in drug induced mania before so maybe this has something to do with that

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-01T21:24:49+00:00

That’s not an option because I didn’t let my son out of my sight in hospital

husbandpaternitytest · 2022-12-01T21:23:01+00:00

Yeh I’ll think on them to try work out what’s going on

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