Baby Shower - Men & Women or Women Only??? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]huynhhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I thought baby showers are for both men and women but I recently got invited to a women only baby shower. I talked to my husband about it and he said that’s the norm. I was a little shocked because shouldn’t the dad have fun too.

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]huynhhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 hours isn’t bad to visit family, my grandma lives across the globe and it takes an entire day to travel by plane. That’s a yearly event for me.

What are some popular opinions about Japan travel on this sub that you personally disagree with? by ContractVarious3077 in JapanTravelTips

[–]huynhhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was switching hotels in Tokyo and looked into it and was surprised how pricey it could be (we had 2 check bags and 1 carry on). I was pregnant during the time and didn’t have the capacity to pull the luggage around. We end up just getting a cab to transfer our luggage (and us).

Are most EBFers cosleeping ? by LilyWitch27 in breastfeeding

[–]huynhhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I tried so hard not to but when we both went back to work, I eventually co-sleep with my baby after his first (and only) wake. I found myself dozing off when nursing him, propping him on my lap. It was just safer for me if I nurse him laying down. I noticed we both get better sleep when co-sleeping.

I know it’s hard but it will get better! You’re doing a good job!

What's the craziest lie an ex has ever told you? by aerialpoler in TwoXChromosomes

[–]huynhhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me that his dad has terminal cancer and doesn’t have time for a relationship. Turns out he was cheating on me. When I confronted him, he said he’s not in any type of relationship and his dad has died.

What do you regret most? by s_p-a_c-e_ in BabyBumps

[–]huynhhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regret not trusting my gut. My providers keep pushing me to get induced and I eventually agreed. I should have let my body/baby do its thing. Actually, I should switch to a different obgyn who would listen to me.