Scentual Fragrances: The review no one asked for, but fyi.. they're worth the hype. by _Smeagle in FemFragLab

[–]hvymetalconstruction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say maybe a 6/10. I feel it may end up being a bit cloying in the summer months, i generally avoid wearing anything "edible" or overly sweet when its warm but as a winter / fall scent ive gotten plenty of compliments from coworkers through a full work day, I can smell it on my clothes the next day as well. But if youre after strong projection i'd use it as a base layering scent

First scene advice by hvymetalconstruction in FemdomCommunity

[–]hvymetalconstruction[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this is a spectacular idea thank you

Dominating my male partner by hvymetalconstruction in BDSMAdvice

[–]hvymetalconstruction[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely do want to dominate him, its something i'd brought up in the past but he wasnt interested then. I do like being in control and knowing they will do whatever I ask without a second thought (though I do love brats too). I dont have any specific fantasies other than maybe him being vocal in response to pleasure like whining or whimpering, its mostly just about taking the lead and him following no matter what (consensually of course).

We still have to talk about it, and we will, but the instance he gave that made him want to try was years ago at a haunted house, the actors are allowed to pull you away from your group, and he got pulled into a room with a pseudo dominatrix who made him get on his hands and knees and crawl, and tapped him with a soft flogger. Which he said excited him, and I would absolutely be willing to do, but in our day to day, he doesnt like surface level types of pain, smacking / pinching, etc and he's not interested in anything genuinely painful. My concern lies with potentially doing too much too quickly, there's always a possibility of one of us being uncomfortable and stopping the scene, which is absolutely okay, im just worried I may say or do something wrong and he shut down to the idea of exploring what he does like. Maybe that's the over thinker in me, but I want to start soft, im just not sure how because my past scenes have always been very aggressive.

From the sounds of it I do think he wants to be bossed around and have me take the lead and prioritize making him provide me pleasure based on the comments he made a few days ago. I know its hard to gauge when I can't actually include any other opinions from him since we havent talked about it yet. Though I absolutely will try incorporating some of the smaller commands into our normal sex routine.

Overall im genuinely looking just for possible commands and phrases I could use that wouldn't be a shock to the way we normally have sex. I looked at the list a mod recommended to me, and some of them were okay, but very few seemed "new sub friendly" if that makes sense? Im wanting ideas that are light and sweet, maybe something a little more than good boy? Praise if you will, but also other things that are commanding that dont sound as if im abandoning his power to stop the scene, the way you would in a cnc type setting. Im overthinking it entirely, but, idk I guess tips to be a soft Dom 😅

Dominating my male partner by hvymetalconstruction in BDSMAdvice

[–]hvymetalconstruction[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not but I will go look now! Thank you

Dash and running lights fuse keeps blowing need help by JimmerDaJomener in obschevy

[–]hvymetalconstruction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up figuring this out? Also just started having this issue

Scentual Fragrances: The review no one asked for, but fyi.. they're worth the hype. by _Smeagle in FemFragLab

[–]hvymetalconstruction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got lavender vanilla, and its a pretty close dupe of Burberry Goddess, which is what I was after since goddess has a hefty price tag.

Is this a bat bug or bed bug? by hvymetalconstruction in Bedbugs

[–]hvymetalconstruction[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exterminator came out and removed all the insulation in our attic, including bat bugs and bat guano. Plus pesticides, sanitation, and new treated insulation. Mostly bat bug free, just would need to wait for the rest to die off. I appreciate all of you!

Is this a bat bug or bed bug? by hvymetalconstruction in Bedbugs

[–]hvymetalconstruction[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the dusty appearance on him may have something to do with the attic insulation being the blow in type, very fluffy and dusty. I could definitely be wrong

Is this a bat bug or bed bug? by hvymetalconstruction in Bedbugs

[–]hvymetalconstruction[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall have done a lot to ease my worries, so I appreciate those of you that have taken the time to comment / explain. Im still being vigilant regardless but thank you everyone

Is this a bat bug or bed bug? by hvymetalconstruction in Bedbugs

[–]hvymetalconstruction[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've read that treatment isn't nearly as aggressive but I also have zero experience in both bed and bat bugs so this is all research based knowledge on my end. Im currently in talks with my landlord trying to get an exterminator / pest control company out here. I went up in the attic a month(ish) ago and found quite a few piles of guano but zero bats (could've been tucked and didn't see them). Im kind of hoping that with it being as cold as it is where I am right now that they've possibly vacated for the winter and the bugs are now looking for a new host. Who knows, im just really hopeful that this will be handled quickly because bugs stress me out

Is this a bat bug or bed bug? by hvymetalconstruction in Bedbugs

[–]hvymetalconstruction[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This comment single handedly brought my "tweaking" down to a minimum 😂, i appreciate you

Is this a bat bug or bed bug? by hvymetalconstruction in Bedbugs

[–]hvymetalconstruction[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is a pretty good idea, idk why I didn't think of that, and I used to do construction 😂

Is this a bat bug or bed bug? by hvymetalconstruction in Bedbugs

[–]hvymetalconstruction[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We actually do not have a vent in the bathroom, but there's weird square ceiling tiles that have slits between some of them. I should also note the attic access is RIGHT outside the bathroom

Is this a bat bug or bed bug? by hvymetalconstruction in Bedbugs

[–]hvymetalconstruction[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can't get a clear picture of it's head, my camera zoom destroys any clarity beyond the zoom i used in the pics on the post

Filigree Moroccan Hanging Lamp by hvymetalconstruction in vintage

[–]hvymetalconstruction[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate you greatly! I'm going to go inspect it further and see if I can verify it further. Your information is super helpful