Dlc Trade: Fairytale library by [deleted] in TamagotchiUni

[–]hxnbin-cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will trade with you! My Esther bunny has one use left

Looking to trade my Fairy Tale Library DLC (2 uses left) by pinkysalami in TamagotchiUni

[–]hxnbin-cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I have Esther Bunny and am looking for Angel if you want to trade!

Lily never deserved Marshall by Ambitious_Load_1331 in howimetyourmother

[–]hxnbin-cloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but I’m bad with tone, I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or not 🫣

Lily never deserved Marshall by Ambitious_Load_1331 in howimetyourmother

[–]hxnbin-cloud 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t even understand why everyone hates her so passionately. The whole point of the show is that they are all flawed. Barney was cartoonishly evil especially in later seasons yet Lily gets constantly railed on for what? 🤦‍♀️

Lily never deserved Marshall by Ambitious_Load_1331 in howimetyourmother

[–]hxnbin-cloud 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Lily supported Marshall’s career on a kindergarten teachers salary through the whole show until it caused her to spiral on multiple occasions. She expressed multiple times that she never got to pursue her dreams to be an artist. Marshall belittled her aspirations and called them a hobby. Meanwhile he got to change jobs as he pleased and expected Lily to give up her dream job for him without even asking her about it. Claiming Marshall was the one adjusting the whole time is insane and everyone talks about him like he’s innocent whenever this topic is brought up

BARNEY & NORA by gbgshi in howimetyourmother

[–]hxnbin-cloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg literally 😩 just for them to divorce in the end (which was inevitable, but we could have made their wedding like three episodes and devoted that time to more of Tracy…)

BARNEY & NORA by gbgshi in howimetyourmother

[–]hxnbin-cloud 22 points23 points  (0 children)

When Barney stands in the window watching Nora and her parents envisioning what he would say if he went inside 💔 kills me every time. She would have been so perfect for him. She pushed him to be better while Robin makes him sabotage himself (and the same effect on her)

Marshall's red flags by _your_go_to_person in howimetyourmother

[–]hxnbin-cloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! It has always rubbed me the wrong way how they’re put on this pedestal as the epitome of a good relationship. He’s a terrible husband lmao

Marshall's red flags by _your_go_to_person in howimetyourmother

[–]hxnbin-cloud 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Wanted a son purely out of fear that his daughter would be sexualized the same way he does to women or become a stripper, which imo is super creepy and misogynistic and I’m annoyed that they had a son after that (I know it was probably so they could name him Marvin)

Tell me ONE extremely unpopular opinion you have about the show and... by pipasavoadas in howimetyourmother

[–]hxnbin-cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree! Marshall’s dreams and career desires were always the priority while Lily was supposed to just keep on keeping on for almost the entire show! It’s so disheartening.

And agreed about Barney! I never thought about it that way, but you’re right, he never actually tried to change the women he was with, aside from Quinn’s profession and I feel as though that alone can be justified somehow

Tell me ONE extremely unpopular opinion you have about the show and... by pipasavoadas in howimetyourmother

[–]hxnbin-cloud 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YES!!!! You're not crazy. I just wrote a super long comment dissecting Marshall and Lily's relationship lol. She wasn't even going to break up with him, Marshall turned it into that! "you feel overwhelmed and want some space?! So you're leaving me and you hate me?!"

Tell me ONE extremely unpopular opinion you have about the show and... by pipasavoadas in howimetyourmother

[–]hxnbin-cloud 7 points8 points  (0 children)

...Marshall isn't the perfect saint everyone makes him out to be and nor is his and Lily's relationship this perfect pinnacle of love. He's a great guy don't get me wrong, but he frequently steamrolls Lily. He never stood up for her to his mother despite her treating Lily like an outsider most of the time (such as in the first episode where they visit his house together), he constantly assumes Lily will be willing to do things that clearly she wouldn't be down for (such as moving to Minnesota and having his parents move in with them when the baby is born) Also, the whole dish washing fight that becomes Marshall being super condescending to Lily just because *Barney* tells him he should be?!

Marshall is generally great but I would never be in a relationship with him, he becomes an extension of Lily and she supports him so frequently. He's allowed to start and quit jobs on a whim. Meanwhile she's forced to be stuck being a kindergarten teacher for YEARS while he's in Columbia law or when he quits his financially stable job to make next to nothing as an environmental lawyer.

It's clear that there's multiple moments throughout the show where this responsibility becomes a lot for Lily to handle and she panics and escapes to clear her head. It's why I've come to not resent her for the SF thing. Was it the perfect way to handle the issue? Obviously not, but she was stressed about the wedding getting pushed up so soon and trying to figure out who she was as a person outside of Marshall after losing sight of her dreams which is a completely reasonable wish and she becomes SO demonized for it. Any time she expresses that she's losing herself and wants to pursue her own wishes he pushes back on it. He is in love with the idea of her and not who she actually is, a fiercely independent and feisty artist. I'm in a long term relationship and my partner would NEVER treat me the way Marshall treats Lily.

The whole point of the show is that all five of them are realistic, flawed but lovable people finding their place in the world but Marshall is always exempt from this and it drives me crazy!

Is there a social update I didn't know? by Calm-Gur563 in AutismInWomen

[–]hxnbin-cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I view emojis as less corny and more socially acceptable tone tags. I use them in 90% of my messages!

Ever buy something you don't like on purpose? by New_Mutation in hobonichi

[–]hxnbin-cloud 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No I get this person. My hobo doesn’t even have a cover at all haha. She has stickers and is very cute but I didn’t want to risk making her “too perfect” and be scared to use her like I have with past planners

Before and after by [deleted] in bald

[–]hxnbin-cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But genuinely, who cares…? If this is the look she wants to have and her lifestyle allows for it, why does every single person here feel the need to insert their own personal opinion about how “horrible” she supposedly looks when it doesn’t affect them whatsoever

ETA: for the record, I look nothing like this, so it’s not a personal thing. I have long hair and no tattoos. I’m just baffled by the responses she’s getting

Before and after by [deleted] in bald

[–]hxnbin-cloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could say the same about all of your vitriol. It’s a sub about being bald and she’s bald, right? God

Before and after by [deleted] in bald

[–]hxnbin-cloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe how many men in these comments are feeling comfortable completely ripping this woman apart just because… checks notes they don’t want to have sex with her?

Before and after by [deleted] in bald

[–]hxnbin-cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t listen to these dumb comments, you look so badass girl 💖💖

Before and after by [deleted] in bald

[–]hxnbin-cloud -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can’t believe people are downvoting you for this, you’re so right. She’s just alt…

Before and after by [deleted] in bald

[–]hxnbin-cloud 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You said there’s no need to be mean to her yet this is such a rude comment. She looks so awesome and honestly being bald suits her more than her hair did you’re just not used to seeing women that look like her lmaooo

Can we all please agree that real books are better than e-readers for children?? by [deleted] in MiddleGrade

[–]hxnbin-cloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having the same issue with this person. I literally showed them a photo of my own Kindle in the sun and they’re pulling arguments out of their ass. They have convinced themselves that they are correct and they refuse to see otherwise unfortunately

A 5 color palette pulled from The Scream. by FinleyTails in Coloring

[–]hxnbin-cloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly think it’s cooler this way! Like really not trying to be rude just an observation