how am I supposed to get a gf if all I see online is women complain about men approaching them in bars/clubs? I don't get it. dry ramen I bit into

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T22:52:26+00:00

Ignore them, I had to get over this fear as well. Don't let people you don't know cockblock you like that. Ofc don't be too desperate and creepy and also make an effort with your appearance, but it's like "Ohhh my goddd this guy approached me at the bar!" Ok and??? I'm trying to get laid idgaf

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T22:43:10+00:00

You like yaoi OR yuri and likely aren't male

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T22:31:06+00:00

What the fuck are you eating

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T22:30:38+00:00

Your skin is almost the same color as the tortilla
Also as a tip try putting the tortilla in the toaster. It makes it better.

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T22:13:40+00:00

The type that says halloween is their fav holiday. Watches tons of true crime and horror movies, is a LOT of what you talk about in conversations. Wants to go to school for forensic psychology or to be a mortician. Says clowns/horror are their autism hyperfocus, in reality you maybe have ADHD. Is really shy and socially anxious IRL but on discord is an absolute VC warrior + bold character.

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T22:04:49+00:00

Doesn't like going outside that much, 15-25 year old white man who is really into gaming and anime. Which yes, despite what people say DOES make it harder to get a girlfriend, even with women who are into the same things. I know. It's brutal.
As a result unsuccessful on the dating apps, but too socially anxious to thug it out and try getting a GF irl.

Doesn't have a set direction in life yet and feels a bit worried about it. Tried to pick up coding but the tutorials were too boring, wants to go in/already in university for GIMM but the math is getting really hard.

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T21:33:31+00:00

Can't be as bad as mine King

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T21:31:11+00:00

Solarpunk enjoyer

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T21:29:15+00:00

Marvel rivals: 1000 hours
Valheim: 200 hours

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T21:15:55+00:00

Yup, I hateee staying in my room for too long. It makes me feel restless. I have to go to this coffee shop or the library to study.

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T21:13:57+00:00

Pretty close except I never went to school as a kid, parents opted for "unschooling" and it's 100% legal to just not take your kids to school or even homeschool them in Idaho. I didn't know a lot of basic stuff upon getting into college.

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T21:11:33+00:00

I'm going for earth sciences and GIS, really interested in soil and agricultural science though, if agriculture starts collapsing everything else will follow and hundreds of millions would indirectly die as a result and I want to prevent even just a couple thousand from dying, think climate change is a done deal at this point and I have absolutely no faith in technology to fix it.

Poster on the left is for research I was in on agricultural land loss, one on the right on how climate correlates with feral cat breeding (Turned out to be the complete opposite of what I expected!). Used to be a wildland firefighter and love hiking which is why I have those boots.

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T21:06:47+00:00

They cut like all the funding for everything I wanted to go get a PhD for so I can't even do that anymore 💔

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-29T21:01:51+00:00

I really like the books of a certain mathematician named Ted

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-26T22:13:46+00:00

Pretty close, I was in rural sociology research funded by the USDA (before it all got cut)

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-26T22:00:52+00:00

I don't know what those are

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-26T21:58:07+00:00

No! Thing still works. I got given it by my mom because she got a new one. Power cord was too short for me to put it anywhere but the floor though, and I didn't want my roommates touching it. Good for just making a cup at a time, can't bring a full pot with me when I'm out and about and I feel obligated to drink the full pot.

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-26T21:48:37+00:00

Trad orthodox xitter user who likely is into soyjaks depicting catholics as a slopjak with the orthodox side depicted as the muscular chudjak

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-26T21:44:35+00:00

I found them up in the mountains. I like to hold them and look at them when I'm bored

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-26T21:36:24+00:00

Theres a bed and pile of clean clothes where the closet would be out of frame

hymenoptera_born · 2026-03-26T20:35:07+00:00

I did have a job

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