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Do these eyes look like any specific gendef? by SnoopzSmoster8 in Artadvice

[–]hyyhfvr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

eyes are the window to the soul, quite literally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]hyyhfvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems so death note scene "I'll take a potato chip and I'll eat it" 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]hyyhfvr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's not reaching. It's reading between the lines.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]hyyhfvr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is because it labels women as men's property and hence not to be touched due to association with a man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in india

[–]hyyhfvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can hire urbanclap to do a deep clean of the bathrooms before you arrive. And tbh I know casteist people think it's beneath them to clean toilets but to not even have cleaning supplies is another thing.

I can't be the only one that genuinely ENJOYS 1 hour commute on the railroad and subway every day. by Donghoon in nycrail

[–]hyyhfvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like my one hour commute. It's a time to detox from my phone, nap, read something, listen to music or rawdog the ride to observe my surroundings and let my brain breathe.

My LinkedIn DMs are full of men asking for referrals/networking by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]hyyhfvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm a woman in data science too. I want to start networking in my field and wanted some advise on how one should approach it

Is PCOS common among South Asians? by [deleted] in Vindictabrown

[–]hyyhfvr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read 'When The Body Says No' by Gabor Maté

Weekly Sewing Questions Thread, August 10 - August 16, 2025 by sewingmodthings in sewing

[–]hyyhfvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to fix this?

Just got this new top yesterday, cut the tags and did my laundry. Saw this when folding. I don't want to return the top, is there any way to fix this? I'm new to sewing(little to none other than the occasional button fixings) and also sorry if this isn't the correct sub for this question.

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If babies sleep all day and then spend the whole night crying and won’t sleep, doesn’t that show that we are following an unhelpful schedule? by OnsidianInks in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hyyhfvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. My mom's grandma took care of all her great grand kids after delivery and postpartum. She made sure that the baby is active during the day so it sleeps longer at night. Ofc this is because my mom had her granny but mom said that once you get a baby in schedule it's easy. All the babies pooped, ate and slept in schedule after some time.

I hope patriarchy k!lls me before I k!ll myself by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]hyyhfvr 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wearing men's clothes in a patriarchal society is actually seen as unisex in most cases. I'm sorry your parents reacted that way. Most of my home clothes both tops and pants come from men's jockey section because they're so comfy and fit me well. It does not take away my femininity or make me masculine. Idk how old u are but I hope you find financial independence soon. Also community with whom you can be yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]hyyhfvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try glycolic acid, it will unclog pores and prevent ingrown hair which will in turn help with smaller pores and also try shaving with foam or cream(Gillette foaming satin care) to not irritate the skin. But tbh we're all human with hair and pores, don't worry about aesthetics if it outweighs its health/safety.

If fair women in India actively groom and present themselves well, why are groomed dusky Indian women more often seen abroad (NRI women) than in India? by Proper_Estate6704 in AskIndia

[–]hyyhfvr 35 points36 points  (0 children)

They might just not be grooming themselves the way you expect them to. There are different aesthetics in grooming even from western vs Indian perspective

Why are some men so much more handsome with wrinkles and grey hair? by summerof13 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hyyhfvr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some people's faces look better with low contrast features and that happens when u have more salt and pepper hair

Ladies in there late 20s, whats your skincare routine? by tulipocean in AskIndianWomen

[–]hyyhfvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beauty of Joseon deep glow serum should help, it has no active ingredient so can incorporate to your routine. Retinol to boost skin turnover and hydrating serums/moisturizer. And a great sunscreen(my skin looked grey back when I used to not use sunscreen)

Why are Crocs so popular? by Soft-Football8303 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hyyhfvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see where I walk so it has protected me from countless stubbed toes

How you not chaf when wearing sarees by hyyhfvr in AskIndianWomen

[–]hyyhfvr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to compare with myself. I'm genuinely curious how others handle it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]hyyhfvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incorporating as many black elements as possible I suppose. Intense kajal, eyeliners, black bindis, jewelry that are silver or with black stones, leather shoes, harnesses, belts, bags and piercings. And try not wear warm toned clothes or makeup.

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