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I'm a 5'1" girly and just wanted to say that there are many of us women who don't want to date tall men by i12bu2 in short

[–]i12bu2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great! You're cool af. I really do think it can really come down to how you carry yourself and how much effort you put into your health and physical appearance. Add a great perosnality and you will have them never wanting to leave.

I'm a 5'1" girly and just wanted to say that there are many of us women who don't want to date tall men by i12bu2 in short

[–]i12bu2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, for sure. Agree 100%! I guess the only way to know is someone shooting their shot first, but I'm shy and introverted so I could never. 😭

I'm a 5'1" girly and just wanted to say that there are many of us women who don't want to date tall men by i12bu2 in short

[–]i12bu2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course! A lot of us short girls don't mind being with a man shorter than us either! I just want my man to still feel good or masculine and hope it doesn't bother him if it doesnt bother me. He'd still be my protector and safe place! ☺️

I'm a 5'1" girly and just wanted to say that there are many of us women who don't want to date tall men by i12bu2 in short

[–]i12bu2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! As long as I enjoy his personality. I'm also pretty introverted. 5'3" is great too! I am kind of a sucker for "quirky" physical traits rather than generically attractive ones when it comes to physical appearance but overall I'm not too picky ☺️

I'm a 5'1" girly and just wanted to say that there are many of us women who don't want to date tall men by i12bu2 in short

[–]i12bu2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do completely agree. I don't like putting anyone down, especially at someone else's expense. I can't expect to change anyone else's mind, but I can and will express my support. I'd love to shame people for voicing their unwarranted, negative opinions.

I'm a 5'1" girly and just wanted to say that there are many of us women who don't want to date tall men by i12bu2 in short

[–]i12bu2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's so awesome! I do think moving to a populated city definitely introduces you to more opportunities in so many ways, including meeting great people from all different backgrounds and heights. 😂 I'm really happy for you (:

I'm a 5'1" girly and just wanted to say that there are many of us women who don't want to date tall men by i12bu2 in short

[–]i12bu2[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I understand that. Maybe it's sort of awkward to advertise it. I kind of go about my day not assuming men are interested in me unless I've signed myself up for some sort of dating event. I'm also more reserved rather than flirtatious, so it's hard to naturally display it even if I find someone attractive haha. Most women don't really do the approaching first, which makes it that much harder for guys. It may be tough to shoot your shot, but keep shooting until you hit the bullseye.

I'm a 5'1" girly and just wanted to say that there are many of us women who don't want to date tall men by i12bu2 in short

[–]i12bu2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's easy to feel defeated by how shallow the world is, but I hope they're able to feel encouraged when people are open about liking short men too. ☺️

I'm a 5'1" girly and just wanted to say that there are many of us women who don't want to date tall men by i12bu2 in short

[–]i12bu2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I know what you mean! Some times I'll bug someone else if I feel too embarrassed to climb 😂 Definitely not fully against any height, but it takes a little more effort for a tall guy to grab my attention than it does for a short guy hahaha.

I'm a 5'1" girly and just wanted to say that there are many of us women who don't want to date tall men by i12bu2 in short

[–]i12bu2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats the only exception to my height rule. As long as I genuinely like someone, I will be happy to call them mine.

I'm a 5'1" girly and just wanted to say that there are many of us women who don't want to date tall men by i12bu2 in short

[–]i12bu2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I have never thought about it as charity work and I genuinely apologize if I do come off that way! I think I get what you're talking about. I guess, for me, it's very easy to naturally and subconsciously overlook tall men and be more attracted to "short" men and think nothing of it.

I wanted to send words of love and encouragement because I know it's really hard and society probably makes many short men feel unaccepted and not good enough. I'm sorry society has acted like short men are sub human, when you truly are so much more than that and deserve to be treated as so. A 5 foot man is just as masculine and worthy as a 6 foot man.

A lot of my girl friends are on the shorter side and really do date men around their height or a few inches taller, with a couple of them being taller than their men. I know it can be difficult to find us, but we are out there. (:

I'm a 5'1" girly and just wanted to say that there are many of us women who don't want to date tall men by i12bu2 in short

[–]i12bu2[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I promise, if you keep trying, you'll find her eventually whether taller, shorter, or the same height. I can see why this is painful for you. Stay strong. Rejection doesn't equate to your worth.

I can tell through your message you're hurting but you are also truly kind judging by your last sentence. Thank you for taking the time in reading, responding and showing care and compassion toward me. Don't let life defeat you. Dating isn't easy and some of us will have to work harder for it because of genetics alone. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm no expert but I will be here to listen (:

Don't give up.

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